Hello Steem Fam!
Hope your weekend was great? Mine was great and I am so excited because today, I would be hosting my first contest on the steem blockchain. This I would say is just my own little way to give back to our awesome steem community.
You see, as children,one of the things we were always taught to say is "I am sorry",but lately I been wondering why some folks will never they are sorry even when it is obvious that they are wrong. When our actions,attitude or words hurt someone,some of us will tender sincere apologies but some people will never do.
So, here is the contest;
• Tell us why some people will never say Sorry even when it's obvious that they are wrong.
• How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
• What is the importance of saying "I am sorry"?
Would really love to hear your thoughts guys. No plagiarism, just give us your best thoughts about the issues I raised.
Anyone is eligible to participate.
Prize for the contest.
2 SBD will go to the best entry.
1 SBD will go to the 2nd best entry.
I may increase the number of winners depending on the response this contests gets and the post payout.
Rules for the contest;
• Upvote this post.
• Resteem this post for more visibility.
• Follow me @kweenbrand.
• All entries should be made as a comment in the comment section of this post.
Deadline is the day of this post payout.
If you fail to follow the rules, you won't qualify for the prize.
This contest is educative and I know anyone that will follow through will sure have something to learn.
So guys, what are you waiting for? Let the contest begin.Let's share our knowledge and learn from each other!
Thank you so much!
Much love,
@kweenbrand
Many people don't know how to say I'm sorry, because they grew up in an environment where "I'm sorry" has no meaning whatsoever. Because they grew up in an environment where that feeling is nothing, making that of our way of acting something everyday, where that word has no value, no meaning.
They believe then that they are the holders of reason and in that sense they will try to impose their own ideas and actions regardless of who they affect with their actions.
In that sense, these people do not have the emotional resources to offer an apology, much less the mercy in their hearts to acknowledge their mistakes and find ways to compensate for the harm they have caused
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Why some people will never say sorry?
Cuz they're not even nice to themselves.
How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
We should avoid them
What is the importance of saying "I am sorry"?
A person of no Importance is a musical with music
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Mainly, this happens with people who are very proud, so it is hard for them to say sorry, as a result of this it is very likely that these people are resentful, apathetic and have very few true friends.
Apologizing sincerely shows that this person is a mature person, because not everyone accepts their mistakes, and even more says "I'm sorry".
• How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
With this type of people, there is to be forewarned, and clear that they will never accept their mistakes, so we just do not disappoint ourselves and in general have such an intimate friendship with such a person, because you can have many disappointments.
• What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
A simple "I'm sorry" does not matter at all. A sorry is really important when the person who apologizes understands his mistake, think about not committing it anymore, because if you make the same mistake and the "I'm sorry" has no value.
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#Question : Tell us why people will never say sorry even when they know they are in the wrong?
#Answer : hmm i think there are two factors that answers to this question, one its peoples pride that stops them from saying the word sorry , they feel like its something below them to apologize for the wrong that they did , even when they recognize that not saying sorry might just damage the relationship between both parties. the second factor is that they truly believe that its naturally obliged for the other to forgive them without them apologizing, or they just randomly think that the relationship will continue and they dont have to apologize or anything.
##Question : How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
##Answer : It truly depends on the importance that person is to you, and what the deed they did was, but i think more often than not , without even them apologizing i truly forgive them from the depths of my heart because i would hate for our relationship to be ruined.
###Question : What is the importance of saying im sorry?
###Answer : okay so you might get people that will say apologizing does not reverse the damage done or the hurt incurred and it cant heal the wounds created. but the importance of saying im sorry which is sincere is that 1 you show the other u truly care about the relationship and do not want to ruin it, 2 you recognize and admit to ur fault and are guilty but wish to mend the others feelings.
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Interesting!
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Thanks a lot ma'am for your support and for coming around! Much love😀😀
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Thanks too! Enjoyed thinking about it. Helps you appreciate it more :)
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People tend to not say sorry when they are wrong because of pride. Pride is the only reasonable cause of that. I mean, why shouldn't you say sorry? Even when you're aware that you're wrong? You must have an element of pride inside you to be that way.
Secondly, people who never accept their weakness tend to be apprehensive about saying sorry. It's more common with people who see themselves as 'the most upright'. They feel they are always right so they wouldn't say sorry went they go wrong.
I must say at this point that it is very wrong to have the mindset that 'saying sorry is needless'
Apologizing when you go wrong is the virtuous thing to do any time any day. When you Apologize for your mistakes, it enhances the relationship between you and the second party. It builds up the very bridges that lack of tendering apologies would destroy. And again, it is not just only about saying sorry. One has to make amendments after apologizing for his or her wrong deeds.
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Why some people will never say sorry?
Due to they know they are wrong
How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
Say sorry to them when you are wrong
What is the importance of saying "I am sorry"?
due to tomorrow you may not have the opportunity to do so and admitting you are wrong will help you not making the same mistakes again
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Why some people will never ask for forgiveness?
Because they do not want themselves, they do not have self-esteem, they do not self-respect, therefore, they can not value someone else.
How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
They are not friends ... they are unhealthy people for your life and mental health.
What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
Just saying "I'm sorry" shows education, culture, common sense, humanity; qualities of great importance nowadays.
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Amazing Idea Kween! Well, here goes my opinion;
I think that most times ego is the main culprit when it comes to not apologizing. In as much as saying sorry is practically the first thing we learnt as kids while growing and developing our characters, we may have somehow picked characters which aren't necessarily the best and have somehow interfere with the first values we learnt. Egoistic people find it hard to say words like "I love you or I'm sorry", which is quite sad if you ask me.
There are people, however, who don't apologize because they believe apologizing will make them look vulnerable and too emotional than they want to appear. For others, they fear that when they accept their wrongs and apologize, it paves way for more accusation or blames from the person they are apologizing to. The reasons really are much! I believe it might just be a way of "protecting" themselves from what doesn't need protection. What apologies do is strengthen and mend relationships, who need protection from what will make relationships between friends, families, couples etc. blossom?
I have learnt to tell myself "sorry" even before people that wrong me apologize and it has gone a long way in helping me to care less about people apologizing to me or not. Sometimes friends might hurt us without meaning to or maybe they don't understand how important it is to apologize, I try my best to let them know but when my effort seems futile, I just forget it. We can't force them to change, but we can at least help them grow.
Well, I think apologies are an extremely important part of any relationship. It opens an opportunity for forgiveness which in turn brings about reconciliation and a peaceful coexistence. It also makes it easier for the person that had been hurt to deal with issues. A world where no one apologizes will be one full of chaos and sadness, which isn't what our world should be like.
It not all about who is right or who is wrong, it is about staying peacefully and making others happy as well, apologizing won't costs us much, but it gives us back a whole lot of benefits. (hope its not too long, I dunno how it ended up this long. lol.)
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i really ideal ur conception and totally agree with ur line of thought, this was a great entry to read.
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Yeah? Thanks so much @moonprincess!
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It's my pleasure!
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This is a beautiful initiative, well done on this.
#resteemed
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Thanks a lot dear.
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Hi @kweenbrand my entry:
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-Tell us why some people will never say I'm sorry even when it's obvious they're wrong:
This happens because many of those people their parents did not educate them since childhood to say sorry, they are usually proud people, who always want to be right and do not accept that they are wrong, that is they can have thousands of failures but they do not they will accept it because even if they know they are wrong, they do not accept to ever lose.
It also happens because the person is selfish by nature, it was not their upbringing, they believe that people will always be with them no matter what happens and they do not realize that people get tired when they hurt them and sometimes they go.
-How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
It is difficult to handle with people like this, sometimes it happens that we get away from these people to feel more protected, because we know that if they hurt with a word or a fact they will never say sorry, but the most correct thing is to make that person understand who hurt us or their bad attitude all this through communication, talk and tell that person that made us feel bad and that we would like him to apologize, but without forcing that person because if one obligates and then no I would be a sorry, sincere.
-What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
It is important to say sorry because we show respect towards the other person because of our negative attitude, we feel better with ourselves and the other person, we avoid any resentment in the other person, because probably if we do not say sorry, that person no longer treat us the same and even walk away completely because of our attitude.
Saying sorry frees you from any guilt you can feel, if we know that to err is human but nothing better than saying sorry, sometimes the damage is deep and one I'm sorry is not enough, but that does not mean that we do not say, that the other person value the fact that we want to amend our error, it is probrable that when we say sorry the other person feels better and friendship, or some kind of marital relationship, work, can resume, and continue on good terms.
https://steemit.com/contest/@josyweed/i-am-sorry-contest-gana-3-sbd
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Sorry my foot.
Why do people always want the word "sorry" when its always accompanied by a negative circumstance. What? Will someone give birth or just graduated in the University and you tell him "sorry"?.
You hit your leg against a stone and you expect me to say sorry, am i the stone or the person who pushed you ?. For your info the right word at that moment is "Take Care" check the dico for that. Even when you sneeze, you'll hear "sorry" I hate that with passion, that action is an involuntary action of the body mechanism in taking care of dust for Christ sake.
Maybe because I served under masters who hate it 'cos that has made me to hate the word the more, if you have done something wrong, correct it by doing the right thing, not saying sorry.
Sorry has never cured a wound or raise a dead body, it only pleases the soul
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Tell us why some people will never say that I am sorry, even when it is obvious that they are wrong:
This type of reaction as a form of pride or stubbornness, however, this inability often hides deeper motives. When a person shows difficulties in saying sorry or in recognizing their part of error or responsibility, what happens is that they are actually deploying a series of efforts to protect a fragile perception of their own "I". Thus, for some, saying "I'm sorry" has psychological repercussions that go far beyond what these two words mean initially. They awaken in them deep fears - both conscious and unconscious - that live as a threat to their person. Hence, try desperately to avoid apology. We know that admitting your mistakes can be hard on the ego,
but if you see it from a selfish point of view, there is additional incentive to do it beyond helping the other person feel good again.
How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
Saying sorry is something threatening for a person who does not apologize, they have problems separating their actions from their personality. For example, if they did something wrong it is because they must be bad people; Therefore, saying sorry is a great threat to your basic sense of identity and self-esteem. For those who will never say sorry, it can open the door of shame; what makes you feel bad about yourself, if you are one of the people who do not apologize or ask for forgiveness, begins to ask you if you would not feel better by saying a simple "I'm sorry"; this single phrase can save you from breaking relationships with a loved one.
-What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
The important thing here is to use that word with love, respect and responsibility, to have the humility to pronounce it when we have made a mistake and to show affection in that way. Sometimes people who are upset with you just need you to acknowledge your mistake, simply show that the other person really cares about you.
https://steemit.com/contest/@maribelquere97/i-am-sorry-contest-win-3-sbd
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For myself i love to say sorry all the time to God in the first place,in the first minute when I wake up and lying on my bed,to be sure that I surrender myself.Say sorry is just a simple way of cleansing our body and soul.We are human ,who committed mistake and error.Saying sorry is a kind o acceptance that we got wrong even if it is just take sometime..
Why there are people who never say sorry?
Ego driven by devil thought,its the main root to someone who never know how to say sorry assuming that they are perfect .I have a friend she swear not to say sorry to anyone because her opinion that she just say sorry only direct to God.As far as I observed this friend of me,she is a good mother,a good daughter,a sister and a good friend of me eversince she came here in Saudi too.We are best friend but when she get angry to other housemaid whether it is a Filipina or amother national,she fought and had her own reason even sometime she was the one who got wrong.She easily love but easily hate someone too and she is the one I told you that she never know how to ask forgiveness and say sorry to people but only to God.
I could not judge her if she was wrong or right.Its up to her but for me saying sorry is so necessary for me to have peace of mind.Who knows my life span is just going on around the time clock.
Thank you and I am so sorry.
God bless @kweenbrand
Im your Nanay Deevi.
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"I AM SORRY" Some people do not ask for forgiveness for their pride and stubbornness, they have trouble asking for forgiveness. For most people asking for forgiveness they associate it with feelings of guilt, for frail people asking for forgiveness is a fact linked to feelings of shame.
Also people who do not ask for forgiveness do not consider the apology as an opportunity to solve the problem, but believe that if you acknowledge their mistakes, the other person will take advantage of draw in face his past mistakes.
These people are afraid that if they ask for forgiveness they can let their guard down without control.
However, if these people could lower their defenses, be vulnerable and recognize their mistakes would allow an emotional closeness and confidence with the people around them.
https://steemit.com/contest/@yumifer/i-am-sorry-contest-win-3-sbd
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Hello! I find your post valuable for the wafrica community! Thanks for the great post! @wafrica is now following you! ALWAYs follow @wafrica and use the wafrica tag!
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Congratulations @kweenbrand!
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Thanks a lot. I already have you as my witness.
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Thank you for your support @kweenbrand
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I have some great ideas on this; I'll see if I can find time to write a post. :)
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OK dear! Nice! Would be waiting for your post! I hope you get the time too.
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Hi @kweenbrand my entry:
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-Tell us why some people will never say I'm sorry even when it's obvious they're wrong:
This happens because many of those people their parents did not educate them since childhood to say sorry, they are usually proud people, who always want to be right and do not accept that they are wrong, that is they can have thousands of failures but they do not they will accept it because even if they know they are wrong, they do not accept to ever lose.
It also happens because the person is selfish by nature, it was not their upbringing, they believe that people will always be with them no matter what happens and they do not realize that people get tired when they hurt them and sometimes they go.
-How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
It is difficult to handle with people like this, sometimes it happens that we get away from these people to feel more protected, because we know that if they hurt with a word or a fact they will never say sorry, but the most correct thing is to make that person understand who hurt us or their bad attitude all this through communication, talk and tell that person that made us feel bad and that we would like him to apologize, but without forcing that person because if one obligates and then no I would be a sorry, sincere.
-What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
It is important to say sorry because we show respect towards the other person because of our negative attitude, we feel better with ourselves and the other person, we avoid any resentment in the other person, because probably if we do not say sorry, that person no longer treat us the same and even walk away completely because of our attitude.
Saying sorry frees you from any guilt you can feel, if we know that to err is human but nothing better than saying sorry, sometimes the damage is deep and one I'm sorry is not enough, but that does not mean that we do not say, that the other person value the fact that we want to amend our error, it is probrable that when we say sorry the other person feels better and friendship, or some kind of marital relationship, work, can resume, and continue on good terms.
https://steemit.com/contest/@josyweed/i-am-sorry-contest-gana-3-sbd
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One of the most common reason why some people would not say sorry even if it is very obvious that it is their mistakes is because of their PRIDE. Pride is what make people being independent and feel that they are more special and talented or an important person than you, which is very wrong.
In order to handle the situation, if it is happen in school, the school guidance must educate and share about what is the importance of saying sorry and even if its not your falt, we should learn to say sorry. If the person who has mistaken and not saying sorry, you can also tell him/her that I am sorry, because maybe she will regret or ashamed if the one who says sorry will tell the real person and it makes him/her feel uncomfortable and until the day end, I think he/she will say sorry unto you.
The importance of saying sorry is it can make and build a relationship better and good and the connection to each of you will be remain the same and stable. It is necessary to say sorry because through saying, it can make you feel calm and free because if you are not saying sorry, the guiltiness, sin, and fault will be doubt or remain in your heart and I am sure, you will not be comfortable in holding the sin or mistake.
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Nice contest, weldone ma
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My entrance.
1- Because some people will never say sorry, even when it is obvious that they are wrong?
It is simple, because that person is totally full of pride, when the person does not recognize his mistakes is because that pride has hardened his heart and that hardening produces a shell in his life causing him not to recognize his weaknesses and defects.
2- How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
It is difficult to manage or control, because it usually affects us a lot that a friend or very close person does not recognize their faults and what remains is to have a lot of patience, if we certainly want to keep those kind of people on our side.
3- What is the importance of saying sorry?
When we commit a fault and we recognize saying that we feel it automatically, we remove all weight from ourselves, we demonstrate humility, and we also demonstrate how important that person is to whom we have failed in some way.
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Greetings, this is my entrance.
Answer No. 1
It can be for the parenting obtained either from their parents or relatives in which, traditionally, they do not recognize their mistakes or failures, either because of their ego or lack of humility and they think that by doing so they are humiliating themselves.
Answer No. 2
To these people we must make them see that the phrase "I'm sorry" is a magic word, through it we can rectify our mistakes and with that they are not humiliating themselves. Nor is it that with saying it they will feel less than other people. You have to make them see the meaning of this phrase.
Answer No. 3
It is important to say "I'm sorry" this allows us to be good with oneself and with others since with this phrase we recognize mistakes and allow us to rectify and demonstrate to them humility and equality.
Thanks @kweenbrand for the opportunity to participate, greetings from Venezuela.
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Men never say they are sorry because they never see wrong in what they are doing. They never see reasons for being sorry even it’s obvious they are doing wrong to others.
Proverbs 16:2
All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes;
but the Lord weigheth the spirits.
These people are blinded by the works of the devil. The devil dictate them not to feel and act sorry.
When a man have done something wrong and never say sorry, take it lightly. Return his wrong deeds with good one. Make him realiize his mistake by doing good things to him.
Romans 12:20-21
Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Accepting mistakes and feeling sorry for what you did, doesn’t mean you are weak but showing courage to face your failures and wrong doings. Saying sorry shows sincerety in repentance. Its one way of showing humility. And you’ll be easily forgiven.
Acts 8:22
Repent therefore of this thy wickedness, and pray God, if perhaps the thought of thine heart may be forgiven thee.
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