Love is really important that everyone feels a little or more off in his life. You will never be able to understand what you are going through if you dont know what you are going through. Love is beautiful beyond words can describe; it is unfathomable, no thought can deeply comprehend it.
The contest is still on going as we encourage that we share our views on love; especially on how someone gave your life a meaning and how you felt hurt when it looked like you loved in vain. As discussed that we shall share comments of contributors and discuss their experiences, only 2 persons have commented and both comments have been considered worthy of wining a price. 
@barineka's comment got me pushy. It reminded me of how i started a relationship online with a very beautiful lady and from the look of things (online), we were compatible and meant to be. We hastened up to meet and we finally did and we broke up in less that 2 weeks. I can remember how we made plans of building our home together, what our kids would be called: we will talk until we started making sounds to each other. I wondered how the excitement with which i saw her fade away barely 2 weeks; i wondered how something on my 'to do' list was pushed into the 'never to do' list.
Sometimes love makes no sense when you are in it.
I can tell you for free that i am a mad lover. I get in love as quickly as i come out of it. I have been hurt many times in relationships but i promised myself to always enjoy the ride even if the destination fails. I still do keep in touch with most people that i have loved who have hurt me. Most times i go to the point of asking them to tell me my faults so that i can amend on my new relationship and they have been helpful. It is easy to love again @cheekah but trusting someone with your love is always the problem. Never concentrate on how hard-hit you are going to be when you fall in love again, concentrate on really loved you will be.
That 'someone' who will make your love beautiful may still be harbouring your fears.
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Remember, many people will go through life without an opportunity to fall in love; and they will never know what it means to find that 'one person' they can stop the world for.
Have you ever being in love and felt you have loved in vain? Share your experience as a comment to this post and the best three (3) comments will win 2sbds each; 2 comments already chosen.
NO RULES... Just make sure it is your experience. But you can resteem for wider participation and upvote if you please. The best comments will be shared and analyzed one after the other as a winner will be chosen daily. Contest ends at original post' payout.
It is with love!
I am @outhori5ed; love is the greatest thing that can ever happen to you.
i don't know if to believe in love or not because i have fall in love twice but it all seem like a dream and it hurt when the girl tells you she is not interested in you. The last told me that she took me like a brother. i really wish i would be love back the way i had love both. i envy two love bird who love each other independently. i pray that one day i will meet that the chosen one. nice post
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Love! Love!! Love!!! This really gets me thinking and it holds a deep spot which is equally sore, wounded and defeated within me. I feel like I am not capable of loving anymore because of my experience in the past. Yeah! Love is not something that could be said to be physical, but it can be translated into the physical through some expressions.
Far back in school there was this girl that I hardly ever talked to her through the years in school. This could also be said for my friends too who were not on good terms with her. Quite a few years into school I began to notice some changes within this girl. From a young girl Martha was growing into a beautiful young woman. I saw the changes in her and I told my friends about this changes in Martha, but they were all quick to dismiss my findings. I later went out of my way to actually talk with Martha so as to get to know her, I was actually setting the ground to ask her out. While I was doing this I told my best friend about this and he was like I should leave the girl alone. He said that there is no need for me to make any move on Martha because there was nothing to gain from her. On my own end I saw a beauty with potentials for me as a girl friend. I told my friend categorically that I wanted this and I was going to get what is mine.
A few weeks later I went for a visit to check up on my friend. While he went to ease himself in the bathroom I just took his phone to play with normally, but something told me to go through his phone. I saw the unbelievable, my friend was already chatting with Martha on phone already and this was not too good for me. It was like a sort of betrayal. I continued down the chat and found out that he just asked her out the week before and she replied him by saying she would think about it.
I was angry and vexed at this and I confronted my friend with what I had seen and he was not even a teeny weeny bit remorseful for what he did. I went out of his house a angry man too think within myself on what to do. The next day my friend came to my house and tried telling me to understand his view on the girl. I told him I was already in love with Martha and he very much knows that for a fact. I asked why he could do such a thing to me. He told me that I just have to forgive him and I have to consider him now that Martha had already consented to his request. I was shocked by this. I almost passed out. This was the love of my life being taken away from by own friend. Is love a betrayal? I do not know about this.
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Love is just a word indeed but it goes deeper than that. My experience in love has been bittersweet. Most of it was loving in vain. You love a person but their love is not for you but for what they can get from you. Believe me, it was straight out the door when i discovered that. Nevertheless, i still believe in love. Surely, the right person would come along and sweep me off my feet. I look forward to that.
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