So Friday was my youngest son's birthday, this is the first time in 12 years my boys were unable to share that special day together. Cps has gotten in the way of that. I take responsibility when necessary but i do not feel I'm in the wrong in our situation.
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what do you mean you don't know where my son is?
I called to set up a visit with my son who was previously removed from my home due to my educational neglect. We haven't had a fun time in our visits, the last time I went to visit he yelled at me and told me to "f" off, he is angry which i understand. I left our visit in tears and came home. So Friday I called to set up a visit to have a small "party" so at least my two boys could enjoy this special day even a day late. When I called they told me he is not there....What? Wait a second what do you mean he isn't there? Where is he? They tell me they aren't allowed to give that information. What. I'm his mother, why can't you? The person on the other end of the line told me to "f" off and hung up the phone on me. I called back frantic as any mother would and demanded they tell me where my son was. They said unlessI have the information needed they couldn't tell me. So tomorrow morning I will be up there to find out what is going on. Why am I being kept in the dark. Who are they to keep me away from my child, I still have rights. I will not allow this bump in the road to keep my family down.
My son needed help
They promised to have him home in 20 days. It's been over a month now. I'm furious. The only answersI get are i don't know. I asked to talk to someone in charge, but if course no one was there whenI needed that help. I am determined to get the help needed for my son andI hope and pray it is soon. I am losing it not knowing where he is. This is not how things should be ran.
These Social Workers and the people working in the system are out of control. I am so sorry that you and your son are being treated this way. Thank-you for the update!
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I just wish I had a positive update to share. I'm waiting on a few phone calls hopefully someone will share with me the whereabouts of my son. Thank you for taking time to read. Much appreciated!!!
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Thank you
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Oh my are you serious! How old is he? Surely the parent needs to be informed at all times of what is happening! All these problems people are experiencing through CPS sounds like part of an evil plan to demoralise. I've heard there is a department in the United Nations that was set up to help families, have you heard of this? I'll try find the post, it was by @hope777.
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he will be 13 on the 25th of May ...i haven't heard of that department within the UN
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Sadly UN has no authority here in the US with CPS
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Oh no @charisma777!! I am so sorry your family is going through this. Unreal unfathomable. So distructive. I send my love and comfort to all of you. Be strong. Be clear. Stand in your power. Do not back down from this living nightmare. Praying your baby is home soon. 🙏 🌅
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Thank you i hope he is back home soon. I also hope he does get some help with his behavioral issues.
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Here's to hoping he has learned and comes back more centered. My son is 13. His dad and i just separated. Puberty and boys seems pretty complex. All the best to you all.
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CPS is the most corrupt and evil of all government agencies. They allow horrid things to happen to children once they have them. Nobody governs them. I have heard of or seen situations where someone should have stepped in for the child's sake and more often then not... not much is done. I am sorry to hear your story. I am sorry it is such a common example of what CPS actually does. I can not recall any "hero" stories about them at all... ever. I hear about children running away and saving themselves from foster homes... or just running away.
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Let me know what you find out.
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More phone calls no answers voice mail no return calls trying to get everything in order I'm going to have to get down to business. All I want is an answer to where is my son?
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Go down there before end of the business day and keep your cool.
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Im assuming some information, one your located in the UK? Two in the UK they are allowed to take children from their families if education needs are not being met. That kind of solution is unheard of in the US. Im very sorry that your going through this. Im sure your very exhaused and worn out by the whole process, I hope your son is safe and you can get into contact with someone who can give you some answers. I know your under allot of pressure, but continue to call, write emails and tell your story. The most important thing is getting your son back. I will say a prayer for you and don't give up.
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Thank you @clearbluecrypto i am in the United states in Indiana. And It is under the neglect section and states educational neglect is neglect. Now i had him enrolled in online courses. Just at the time of them showing up i didn't have the adequate log in information because he refused to do the work. I as the parent know my responsibilities but could not get him to listen and had been begging for help just for it to blow up in my face basically. I have called and called people who are telling me wait until this date then call back... Just getting the run around. Thank you for the prayers they are much needed at this time and greatly appreciated!!
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Amazing I had no Idea that they could do that. Please let me know how this situation works out.
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Our "case" is unique i suppose... He had son behaviour issues and was getting in trouble so they used that to their advantage i will keep you updated thank you for your concern
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My heart hurts reading this! I'm
So sorry y hear about your struggles! I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts! ❤️
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This is a fight that is really hard to gain control of. The strength needed surpasses what one person can acquire. I understand what you are going through, knowing that I do not have the knowledge to help you because of the different countries, different laws. But in the end CPS always has the same motive. Take the children.... Much strength you xx
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It really does seem like it!
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It is your duty to provide information regarding the integrity and location of your child, finally you are in charge, I would like to know if you already know about your whereabouts otherwise you would have to take other support measures, such as campaigns
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I am a bit confused by:
Do you mean do I know how things work In my state as far as cps? Not enough apparently.
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Indeed your duty is to provide information about your child, but we already know how is this system, and what these people are capable of. This you in all the right to stay informed, and more if the child needs help. It baffles me how far these people are able to get. You have all my support, much encouragement, everything will be fine and you will be back together with your son.
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CPS is so corrupt. Hope things improve for you soon!
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