New: desteniAll contenthive-129948hive-196917krzzanhive-183959steemhive-180932photographyhive-166405hive-185836uncommonlabhive-150122bitcoinhive-144064hive-183397hive-188619krsuccesslifehive-101145hive-139150hive-124908hive-145157hive-103599hive-109690hive-181136TrendingNewHotLikerswordstoliveby (45)in covid • 4 years agoThe new normalWhat does the new normal mean ? What does it mean to me, in that what I do differently now than I did 6 months ago and why do the words ‘a new normal’ bother me? What’s changed ? on the whole I…wordstoliveby (45)in life • 4 years agoAre you missing me.I saw an old work colleague today and I was excited to see her and catch up on all the gossip - I notice how when faced with an person or someone connected to a situation in my past that didn’t end…tylersr (56)in separation • 4 years agoDay 43- Redefining and Living SeparationOriginal Post: Day 43- Redefining and Living Separation Self-Allocation Point: Separation is probably the defining characteristic of my main personality system as the class clown, the black…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 4 years agoComparisonWhy do I still troll social media looking at pictures is people I know and compare myself to them, women of a certain age group? What am I missing here about myself, in fact I’m not missing…wordstoliveby (45)in self • 4 years agoLearning to careOn from yesterday’s post regarding Mac - today I am looking at how nothing changes unless we apply ourselves consistently - I am looking at the word grateful ness today and how each day there is…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 4 years agoMacOnce upon a time, 5 years ago if we are going to be exact a Birman cat Mac and his sister Mittens came into my life, yesterday we put Mac to sleep, to say that I am upset is an understatement.…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoWho are you within Covid 19 ?With all the fear and panic going around I asked myself the question- who am I within Covid 19? Whether or not it’s man made, spread by bats, or doesn’t exist at all, I found myself buying into…tylersr (56)in self-forgiveness • 5 years agoDay 31 - Heartbreak in the Time of QuarantineI resume blogging during extraordinary times: as I sit here, all of humanity is experiencing the effects of the novel coronavirus pandemic. I am personally affected by a state-government…tylersr (56)in self-forgiveness • 5 years agoSelf-Forgiveness JournalAbout a week ago, I started a self-forgiveness journal. If you don't know what that is, suggest check out the following links: Self-Forgiveness on the Desteni Forum Desteni Articles on…tylersr (56)in agreements • 5 years agoAgreements vs. Relationships - What's the Difference?Hi all, This post is intended to highlight the differences between relationships (specifically romantic ones, although the points highlighted will apply to all interpersonal relationships) and…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoWho the ‘hell’ am II forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hold on to information as a point of spitefulness, because I believe that it gives me an edge over others I forgive myself that I have…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoWhat the F***Where does worry come from, why am I panicking about things that may never happen ? What is it that makes me doubt that there could be a ‘positive’ outcome? I have been through many ‘scrapes’ if…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoGuilt of behaving in a certain wayIn a chat with a friend recently I commented on how in my life I have put others down in an attempt to make myself look/feel better as I perceive it. Why would I do this ? Why make another feel…kellyposey (28)in desteni • 5 years agoFacing My Own BullIt came up in a discussion today how many of us have patterns of holding back out of fear of judgment, that we developed from childhood, some of us having had parents who were alcoholic as a…adrianblackburn (46)in money • 5 years agoSelf forgiveness blog 3: chasing money, getting in touch with myselfI forgive myself that I’ve not accepted and allowed myself to apply myself in DIP/my process as a solution to get out of the mind and thinking I forgive myself that I’ve not accepted and allowed…adrianblackburn (46)in self • 5 years agoSelf Forgiveness blog 2: writing, self reflection and making moneyIn this moment, I have no idea specifically what I will write self forgiveness on, no preconceived ideas, yet I noticed a few moments ago that I havent written any self forgiveness in a long time…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoMy own fox huntToday I witnessed a fox hunt - I knew they were still happening and I live near a prominent royal country home, where the biggest hunt in the UK was taking place, but I had never seen such horses…wordstoliveby (45)in self • 5 years agoBack to SelfIt’s ok to not always have to make a point/ to be right. I noticed at times how I was tempted to kind of fight to get my point across/words heard by others, for someone to agree with me and get…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoDrama queen 👸I got to thinking today about drama and whether life is better or worse with drama in it? Do I create my own drama as a form of entertainment? Do I enjoy watching drama on tv, do I judge drama as…wordstoliveby (45)in desteni • 5 years agoShort love story...I read a story on Facebook where a man wanted to leave his wife, because he ‘found happiness’ elsewhere - they had a fairly young daughter and in all the time they had been married had no real…