Selling and buying on Quadrigaxc have different requirements. So what you need to do and what I need to do will be different.
I do have a sister (and some of her children) in Kelowna, so if you did want to sell to me directly, I could call her (and / or her children) and see if any of them would mind acting as intermediary. If not, then I will forget about buying steem and just continue to earn it unless I find someone else who wants to trade with me.

I see the value of my wallet is declining every day. I wonder how low Steem will go ? It seems God / fate is watching over me and put a roadblock in front of me when I initially wanted to purchase Steem (at its highest point). I trust that whatever happens will be the way it should be.