DATING/COURTSHIP ISN'T A CONTRACT YET BUT A RESEARCH

Many cry in the eyes of many yourths is cry of heart broken. What is heartbreaking? To me, it is simply a failure to continue with your partner when he or she is still in love with you. The party in question feels pains psychologically, and feel relieved with time.

I see heartbreak as something that will continue to be because when we are in love, before marriage, we are only searching for someone who we can spend the rest of our lives with. Off course, you know what this means, "the rest of your life". We are expected to do this with care so as to avoid future issues in marriage. If under the research, called dating or courtship, we find our selves in one which we cannot stay in for the rest of our lifes, should we continue to manage? No! We have to do the right thing at the right time before it gets out of hand. For instance, if you always catch your patner with other men/women and you continue to give correction but no change was made, should you continue manage? If you because of this reason say goodnight to such relationship should we say you are wicked? No! You have only tried to protect the future. Dating/courtship is a research and not a contract yet, the findings from the research will determine if to go into contract or not.

It is a good thing to fall in love, but it is a better thing to know when to fall out of love when there is need to do so or else you will not be able to stand up in love again. I have for once fall in love with the wrong person obviously, and I had the opportunity to leave but out of infatuation, I stayed until I wanted to leave at the wrong time which became very hard. Everything I now try to do so as to say bye to the relationship hurt me, my self. I almost regreted my life before I could be saved from the so called relationship. Failure to do the right thing at the right time will cost you more to do it at the wrong time.

In conclusion, when your patner is advising you to work on some certain things in your ways of life, kindly do so on time, it is a sign of love because when he/she now say bye to you, it will cost you more if you are lucky to call him/her back. Where it is too late to call the relationship back, go on with your life. That means you are not the right person. Do not kill yourself over someone who does not care to lose you, you might not be his/her choice. Remember, your life is more important than what ever love anyone can show you. Be wise while in love.