I’m going to go out on a limb here......
If you’re a male, and happen to be heterosexual, (could happen to anybody!) you’ve at least had this thought at least once:
“Boy, it might be fun to get a girlfriend!”
And hey - that’s a perfectly normal thought to have. In fact.... I obsessed with nothing other than getting women for... about 20 years. So I’ll forgive you if it’s crossed your mind.
The problem is, most guys are simply lacking the necessary skills to go out there and get themselves a girlfriend.
And.... even more importantly - most guys simply are not comfortable enough with themselves to attract themselves a mate!
And by “not comfortable with themselves” I mean not AUTHENTIC enough. Because.... That’s all authenticity is. Being okay with (or better yet - ecstatic about) who you are!
So: I just want to emphasize that I’m 39 years old, and I’m only REALLY feeling that I truly love and accept myself now..... and I’m nowhere near finished..... So wherever you are in your life..... IT’S OK if you still DON’T feel comfortable. BELIEVE ME - it’s a lifelong process for many of us guys.
Every aspect if our society is designed SPECIFICALLY for you NOT to feel comfortable being you.
That’s just how it is!
ANYWAYS..... The good news is, I just started a video series all about how to accept and get comfortable with who you are - so you can naturally attract the woman of your dreams.....
Authenticity was the only thing that allowed me to overcome my insecurities regarding women. You are absolutely correct about this.
You have to want to be with yourself before anyone else wants to be with you. Still watching the video as I write this, fyi.
Happy to connect with you on Steemit...I wish we had more time to talk at the fork.
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Hey brother, yeah you MUST accept yourself first before anyone else can ....... Hey the event was insane lol, come to infinite man summit ;)
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Ha, it was interesting but a good time overall. Ill have to look into the infinite man summit, thanks for the heads up
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I agree with all you said, but regarding the "external stuff" opposing the "internal authenticity" I found many people drawing the wrong conclusions.
From my experience they are so conditioned in thinking that money is a huge part for inner Happiness that they almost instantly think that the confidence is made up when the other person apparently doesn't have much money. As you say next, those who are"internally truly powerful" don't need to highlight their greatness. It takes a "internally truly powerful" woman to recognize herself in this silent power of the man.
It is so great that you are going the Awakening (Woke ;)) approach towards dating, turning upside down the many tipps and tricks common so-called 'dating experts' introduced to lure women. Almost always I get the clear impression that they do mention the factor of authenticity yet most often this authenticity is cloaking as false Self-confidence defining itself over "authentically pretending to be someone I am not", hidding their flaws as if they had none.
That is really refreshing to hear your points. Exactly my viewpoi, and by simply being our True version ( which of course doesn't happen out of the blue but we grow into it as we undo inner fears and expand our Awareness to our inherent power of being conscious co-creators of realities) eventually brings us exactly what your Soul wants!
Thumbs up twice!
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Awesome to see you here too, much better than youtube :)
Great stuff, upvoted!
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Thanks boss, I gave you some luv too ;)
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Realness is so sexxxy! And I find the confidence it takes to know, accept and love yourself irresistible. Thanks for popularizing the wise things, @sashadaygame. 💚🌿
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sasha talking about dating again......yeah, bring it on.
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as time passes by, im becoming more and more anarchist, specially, reading some disgusting news like this: we dont need some big brother to watch our backs, we dont need the state:
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/france-fine-men-harassment-women-street-a8177296.html
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No we don't.... that's why the voluntarist/anarchy movements are growing FAST ;)
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thanks to you and to people like jeff berwick from @dollarvigilante the word is spreading out :)
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Heyyy !! Hahaha thats a wonderful video !!
I liked your blog dude !! We write pretty much about the same things !! Law of attraction, the secret, manifestation, etc :D
Good blog you got there !! Followed and upped :D
Seems like we gonna gel well !! Hope to have a good time with you ;)
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You have to love yourself. True story. Because of you don't love yourself how in the hell do you expect anyone else to?!
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