A word about debates and discussions
Understand this fact, that most exchange of "views" and arguments between individuals are often based on the matter of pride
Most conversations often turn from a discussion, to a debate
A discussion is pursued, so that a beneficial conclusion can be drawn
Whereas debates often resort to proving the other person wrong, using Ad hominem
Definition of Ad hominem- When instead of addressing someone's argument or position
You irrelevantly attack the person or some aspect of the person who is making the argument)
Each Discourse involves majorly 3 types of individuals
- Emotionally attached individuals
These individuals are emotionally invested in their ideologies, opinions and beliefs.
It is often fruitless to even have a conversation with such individuals.
However, I am not dismissing the fact that you can learn something even from their arguments.
The world is not black and white.The reality often resides in a grey area.
All I am asking you is, understand this pattern, of human nature.
- "Rational" and "Intellectual" conversationalists
These individuals are not emotionally invested, however, they are instead "intellectually" invested
They often twist the statistics, intentionally mis-represent logic so that it suits their statement
They often believe in providing absolute argument
- Sincere thinkers
These are humble individuals, who seek the truth.
They do not cling to any ideologies, and are open for a logical discussion.
Often, they are willing to sacrifice their pride, so that they can pursue the truth.
Identify these individuals, and revere them.
Try to engage in discussions with them, instead of the above 2.
Note that you can learn something from everyone, however, understand that your time is limited.
Thus, I suggest you to pursue the diamond, instead of trying to forcefully observe the beauty in a carbon coal.