You have no right to despise my way of life, because you think it is good, but it may be extremely annoying to me. Everyone has everyone’s world. The mouse’s paradise is a cave, and the bird’s paradise is the blue sky and fish. The paradise is the lake. Who can demand that everything in the world be the same as himself?
A few days ago, my mood was a bit unstable, like small ripples on a calm lake, for a simple reason.
Ten years ago, my classmates called me and asked me to get together to give a heart-to-heart speech. We used to be friends who talked about everything, and had the taste of gathering with friends from other countries.
Old friends get together to chat, which is a pleasant thing. Now, this person is the sales general manager of a real estate company (a larger, well-known company) with an annual salary of four to five hundred thousand U.S. dollars. The company allocates houses, allocates cars and drivers, and the annual salary is enviable for my generation. When I became a poor teacher in a private school, my salary was two to three thousand dollars a month, and I was in a stalemate.
I admit that compared with my classmates, I am indeed a different world. No comparison, no comparison. Maybe the classmate is proud of Chunfeng, or he is really happy to drink too much. After drinking five rounds of vegetables, he began to make impromptu judgments about my current work and life, saying that thinking people should be poor. You are too lazy to be aggressive and have no ambition to pursue a better life. Your lifestyle will affect your entire life, even your children, and turn a blind eye to you. Your talent shouldn't be so bad...
I have no choice but to smile, hum, and keep smiling. Classmates usually scold his employees for forming noble and bad habits, and then yell at me (an old friend). You know, it's not two people eating together at the table, but five people and three friends brought by classmates.
I had to stand up and say that my prostate suddenly hurts today and I am going to see a doctor. Thank you classmates for your kindness. I am leaving.
I was riding an electric bike at the time, and I was really angry. I want to know that tonight they showed me what they have achieved in their struggle and a brilliant life. I’m afraid it’s just a moving cover in retrospect
The classmate called me as soon as he got home, but I didn't answer it. It rang three times, but I didn't answer. I thought to myself, great classmates, our friend relationship ends here, and you don’t have to ask me as a listener in the future. Sorry, I don't have time and mood to listen to your nonsense.
You have your own way of life, I have my way of life. You can be rich and enjoy, you can feast. When I am rich, I can enjoy life, read novels and enjoy life; you can rise to the sky, fly into the sky; I can live in peace and live in peace.
Don't judge others by the so-called values, and don't judge others by the so-called survival philosophy. very simple. Everyone’s lifestyle is unique, and you are not qualified to make irresponsible remarks about the lives of others.
My lifestyle suits me. You have no right to despise me.
Your world is not mine. You may like to be a teacher who dominates the grassland, but I only want to be a bird that can fly freely.
Never measure others by your own values, because that is just to satisfy your vanity.