Learn to make demands of those around you, and don't be afraid to disturb others.
Some people say that not causing trouble to others is a virtue. Because we have received the educational thoughts of "everything on our own" and "doing our own things" since we were young.
Therefore, when we grow up, we also insist on not seeking help from others, so as not to cause trouble to others.
As long as you can solve it, even if you try it many times, it will never cause trouble for others. As we all know, if you trouble others from time to time, you can get twice the result with half the effort.
People who are unwilling to trouble others always think that once they ask for help, letting them use their time and energy to do things for themselves is a kind of interruption for others, and their hearts are very upset. Therefore, they will do their best to do everything they can.
In fact, in real life, if you learn to trouble others and ask for help, you can usually go further. The greatest wisdom in life is not to never trouble others, but to trouble others occasionally.
As a person, don't be afraid of trouble, we all grew up in trouble.
Sometimes the trouble for others is not real trouble, but a kind of mutual help.
We must also learn to say "no" to the unreasonable demands of others.
In life, many people often live in a difficult situation because they are difficult to refuse. Sometimes they are afraid of hurting others and force themselves to do many things they don't like. They gradually discovered that if they did not refuse, they would become a grumpy person. They are always afraid to say "no" bluntly!
In fact, don't be embarrassed, you have the right to be the person who refuses.
Kindness does not always mean not rejecting all things. Sometimes, you need to take care of your emotions and refuse in time.
People must learn to say no, decisively reject what they don’t want to do, don’t hesitate, don’t be vague, you can’t be tough, but you must reject it.
In this way, you are good, and everyone else is good. You must clearly express the meaning of rejection, untie yourself, and don't let other people have illusions.
