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I need you guys help, because my exams got an 'F' , so I'm dealing with a lot of depression such as mom scoldings, confiscation & etc.
So ,I need some help with how to remove all this depression and stress outta my mind, but because of my family's outcome after I tell them of my results, my own phone could be confiscated.
I thought it was a good idea to not tell them or they would explode with anger and sadness. But turns out ,they figured it out and now they are bursting in flames and throwing non-stop sadness at me .
I need help please , comment any tips you can give me, I will be sure to read them.
Imagine yourself in 10 years - will school really still bother you ?
I was kicked out of school twice and I am still alive ! As you can see I survived and became a very independent person. Your parents surely were not free of failures too ;-)
First sit down and imagine: WHY are you in troubles ? Maybe its the wrong school ? The wrong type of school ? Maybe your interests and talents are somewhere else ? Did your parents chose this school for you or did you ? And - is there anything else you would like better ?
Finally you will have to spend the rest of your life based on the stuff you learn today ! Your future depends on your education, not the mood of your parents. You learn for YOUR life, not for school or parents and you must learn what fits you best. After you made up your mind - sit down with your parents and talk it over - THEIR main intention will be that you finally become fit for YOUR life, thats why they are worried about your results.
And hey buddy - there is a life without phone - whatfor do you need this crap? When was it last time you read a book ? Or were out in nature ? I would understand if you worry losing your eyes or your legs but a fucking phone ? I wish my problems would not be worse than yours
Become adult and responsible for you life - make a decision what is important for you - not for the next few months or holidays but for our LIFE and then go for it and talk it over with your parents. Not on your knees and not with arrogance but as a self confident person knowing what you want and dont want -- you will be very astonished how much parents are able to respect and understand ;-)
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Thank you for your advice , I appreciate it alot. :) But I need the phone so I could socialize with my friends cuz in school I just felt lonely.
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you have internet ? and your friends know where you live ? If they really are your friends, they will find you, if they dont find you they are not your friends ... forget them. Try to go to vacation somewhere - a youth-camp or with some close frieds out to camping and relax a few weeks - and after it things will look very different .. how about helping with many othr young people cleaning our oceans ? and make a video of it .. you find that long-haired guy Bojan Slat on Twitter - The Ocean clean up - they always need help - tell your parents you go and do something useful for nature, the planet and your own mind and when you come back - you sit down and talk but now you need distance -- and trust me - you will meet a lot of people in your life but only a few will become your friends - feeling lonely is a state of your mind and not of how many people are around you. Contact Bojan and you will see: The ocean heals everything ;-) https://www.theoceancleanup.com
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Ok, I will try to learn from your advice.
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you are a very polite guy ;-) In 10 years maybe you would "learn from advice" - not today and not your age. I know very well, I was your age too. And I was a very insubordinated specimen even in an age where youth itself was on the war-path. As I said I was kicked out of school, had my fights with everything and everybody and finally went to explore the world, with nothing than a little savings and a passport. Finally I became a journalist to finance my trips and adventures and very late, when I reached an age where others already have a house and family, I finished school and went to university .. the only trick is - listen to yourself and not to your friends or family. Never depend on them, its like drugs - once you are involved you never can get out again, you are a part of the system and melt into it .. This is why I told you to spend summer-vacation on one of the Ocean-Cleanings-Boats- a lot of young people do it because you see your own future - wasted and collapsing oceans, dieing animals and for what ? For endless growing consuming until the planet collapses. If nothing happens to you you will live another 7o or more years and THIS will be your future - overpopulation, pollution, war for clean water instead of oil - this will dictate your whole live, not a fucking phone ... what you need to survive beside a lot of luck? Education, there your parents are right- 50 % of all jobs of the next 20 years will be replaced by robots, people without higher education will hardly find a job anymore ! You need experience and must see with your own eyes what is going on on this planet - fuck the media ! - and you need new acquaintances outside your small local circle - and your parents can hardly refuse your trip if you tell them its an environment-cleaning-project ;-)
As far as I know Bojan also kicked school as a teenager to start the Ocean cleaning project and now its a real great working project. 6 or 8 weeks on the ocean together with a lot of international people around your age might bring you closer to yourself - today, not in 10 years. And never forget : you NEVER learn from advices - only from own experiences. If you feel an opposition when getting advice - yes, thats experience, thats when you start thinking yourself and not depending on anybody, not ony our friends, your family or me- good luck !
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Thx ,@weirat.
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