Crypto-Obstacles

The Mainly Men dominated chats in the underground crypto-chats:

I don't have to tell you things are bad.
Everybody knows things are bad.
Taking for granted, underappreciated or ignored...
We have a big, big problem ladies.
First: You got to get mad.
You know what?
Get up out of your chair.
Go to the window, open your door, stick your head out and yell!

-And yes, I just quoted our goddess Jennifer Lopez in the song: Ain't your Mama.
But it sounds good doesn't it? Crypto-ladies for president? Not right away, for I'm not ordinary blonde but rather Bitcoin-Blonde. This is not not an encrypted message in a blog-chain
This blog is about some crypto-obstacles and how to overcome them.
So again... Some dudes here in the chat-world, yes this is a world of it's own, can come over as arrogant pricks. Maybe it appears to be this way as in reality they are crypto-gentlemen?
Let me give you a personal example of my existential crisis of yesterday night:
If they think you don't listen, when obviously you do, they don't say: "shut up, pretty lady!".
No they just do whatever their little minds decide to do and just block you...
My mind is racing: "They have manly reflexes which are encrypted in their genes since way before the stone age!"
And my hatred for men in general has once again grown thanks to the mysterious ways men have to communicate with women.
Or was it fear, uncertainty and doubt (often shortened to FUD) is a disinformation strategy used in crypto-chats, to influence perception by disseminating negative and dubious or false information and a manifestation of the appeal to fear. Was it this well known strategy used on an innocent girl or was it the alcohol of my Belgian beer leading to miscommunication.

Please someone give me the: How to be a good crypto-wife book and if it's not written before should i be the one writing it then?