In the previous post I've described the situation - counselling FAIL, mediation FAIL - now we will have to go to the court. I'm not a big fan of lawyers and their incentives (maximising billable hours) - I much prefer artificial intelligence (AI) and crowdsourced collective consciousness.
Noone has told me what happens until we reach an agreement - I also don't know what is the current situation - I don't even know if my kids are still alive. I really don't like perverse incentives and game theory situations when me calling Social Services to ensure my kids are safe and sound will trigger alarm, drama and more problems further down the line.
Having said that, here is the ideal outcome of the whole situation.
Ideal outcome
Kids stay in the area, they go to the same school.
Jolanta helps with Hurracine Harvey (70+ death toll)
- https://www.burnerswithoutborders.org/projects/hurricane-harvey
- https://www.facebook.com/BurnersWithoutBorders/posts/10155001656374065
In the making:
- Bitcoin Trip around Europe: https://astralship.org/bitcoin
- Hacker Trip to China: https://www.noisebridge.net/wiki/NoisebridgeChinaTrip7
I need to be very cautious with days outside of the UK so I am still eligible for the British Passport, that is why paying close attention to British Overseas Territories. Initial idea was find a job in Carribean - Necker Island anyone? Or maybe Gribraltar?
Or just live for free in the chapel - https://astralship.org - the only problem with that - year after year I'm promising myself that this is my last winter, option of spending Winter in Carribean or Gibraltar is so tempting!
It was funny to see this job offer but I'm not qualified enough, they require many skills and I don't tick many boxes...
I'm comfortable being unemployed - I was officially unemployed two times already - the only trouble - it doesn't pay much money, check-in required every 2 weeks, it easier to earn money than to be unemployed.
Sidenote to all the naysayers - you can earn a developer salary too - here are two books I wrote:
getting job, preparing to the interview: http://genesis.re/ksiazka/ (in polish)
learning skills in the first place: https://github.com/stefek99/michalstefanow.com/blob/gh-pages/book/book.md (still in progress)
Just be cautious what you wish for - back in 2014 I've landed in a mental hospital - bank loan to get a car getting me to job that I don't want, to sustain family I don't want - pretty mental. I'm not afraid of admitting mental hospital as a voluntary patient again.
Another option I'm considering is volunteering in a hospice to connect with people who are dying so that I can appreciate what I have more. I hope that by now you know my egoistic nature - volunteering as a selfish act, same applies to BWB and Hurricane Harvey - truly extraordinary way of getting some field experience.
So you know the ideal plan "sky is the limit". I'm not panicking now, I was anxious in February, March, April, May... Now I'm in the flow - not planning, as planning limits me to pre-existing body of knowledge and experience... Europe Bitcoin, Hacker China - previously I was limited by time - now I do not have much money - and yet I know that each of these events can easily turn into 100x opportunity!
Thank you Universe, much love, always love.
PS. Here my blockchain CV - I'm looking for a project to fully apply myself - https://astralship.org is pretty much operational, we have a solid base and things are progressing... Maybe I should build a community in London operating with the similar set of values? Fuck yeah!