Before Birth

Every story has a little bit background. My background starts with my parents and how they were not suited for each other. My father was 60 years old when he got married to my mother which she was 25 years old. Their marriage was built on love. What could go wrong? Love is the most important thing in the world right? Love is all that matter. Well, FTS!

Of course, they were happy just like the others that pretend to be in love, or maybe even seriously in love. He was taking her to movies, they were sailing to the see with their small boat. They were meeting with the fear of what might others think or say about them like they were some kind of teenagers.  He asked her to marry him further down the road. It was going to be his fourth marriage and her second marriage. They both had a rough life before they met themselves. They had some things in their mind.

He was thinking; "I could finally find peace with this woman. She would take care of me, and we would start a fresh life.". 

She was thinking: "I could finally can get rid of my parents, have my own family and won't have to deal with to get marry with someone I don't want to" Btw, yes, this story is from middle-east.

He had 6 children from his ex-wifes. The youngest children of his were 1 years older from his new candidate of the bride. They all were against this marriage from the beginning. They told him that she is only getting married to you because of your houses and your money. They accused her about being gold digger. They convinced him to give all of his property to them. He handed out all of his apartments to his children before they got married. He even gave one to one of his ex-wifes even though she did not requested. He had 2 apartment left with him and he did want to make sure that he can sustain his life too, so he did not gave up from them.

Her parents and brothers was also against this marriage. Her father literally said to her; "he is even too old to f*** you. Why are you with this man. You would never be happy." Her brothers were only worried about the money that she earns was going to be vanished. 

Anyways, they did manage to shut everyone's mouth up and got married. The only problem with this is, they both still had the pressure that given by their relatives. By relatives, I mostly mean my father's other sons and daughters. They were always accusing her with being a gold digger or being a prostitute. They were fighting with her when my father wasn't at home. They were even beating her. Her psychology was already messed up way before I was born. My father wasn't believe her side of the story most of the time. Because everyone who he knows was thing the same thing. She had only one thing at her mind at that moment. "If we would have kids, he and everyone else would know how serious I am and how much I love him." 

I know that no body will care but if someone accidentally starts to care, everyday another part will come.