DtubesnapQ #3 : How to be yourself ?

in dtubesnapq •  6 years ago 


I heard a lot of people saying that we have to be ourselves.

But nobody explained how exactly to be ourselves.

We are people and we can be different and I don't see any issue in that.

I've had this question in my mind for a long time.

So tell me please, what exactly do you mean by being yourself?

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I heard a lot of people saying that we have to be ourselves.
But nobody explained how exactly to be ourselves.
We are people and we can be different and I don't see any issue in that.

You can only be yourself in the long run. Pretending to be a different person or faking life will always be found out. It's about telling people what you actually think and not telling them what you think they want to hear. It's a lot tougher when you're young but as we grow and gain experience it becomes easier to stand on our own too feet.

It's a great answer as well. Yeah, we shouldn't hide or be silent about things we are thinking about. It makes a lot of sense to me, I start to understand more now, what is exactly being ourselves. ☺

When we're younger it's a lot harder to speak out and stand up but people for the most part find themselves over time. Through their experiences and through their connections they discover who and what they want to be.

Obviously it won't always work out for people but the ones who try are the real ones. It's not always easy to be yourself as their are lots who want you to follow the trend and be politically correct but everybody has there own unique voice. After that it's just a matter of what they say with it.

I'm 33 years old and I also have my experience in my life, but I don't think that being ourselves is related somehow to our age. People can change and it's ok, the most important is to change to the best but not to the worse and in the end we can't be perfect, we are people and it's life.

I think that there is a lot more pressure to blend in at a younger age. By the time you've hit 30 most people have a lot clearer view of what they actually want to be. We all change as we go through life and like you said, hopefully it's to a better version of what came before. Nobody is perfect but I know that i am not the same person as ten years ago.

Being yourself means being connected with your true nature!

When you let go of the old ways of thinking, follow your bliss, and do what you love, you begin to align with happiness and peace. These are all indicators that you are connected with your true nature. You are then allowing your real self to shine forth in all its glory.

I'm feel most happy when I don't give damn about what other people think of me. Of course I do respect all the human being.

When it comes to Dtube it's always good to be yourself because it give you the maximum chance to progress because there is only one @clixmoney ( and there is only one @nathanmars. lol )

Yeah, that's a great reply. Especially about me being me and you being you.

I will look forward to watch more videos about this topic.

I like that the question made people think. ☺

It really means, don't pretend to be someone else or be fake online. But it's natural to develop a "radio voice" while recording things. I am tempted to wear dark sunglasses because I think they look cool, but that's not who I really am.

I think it's better if you record a video about this with #dtubesnapq tag, because I didn't understand the answer anyway. lol Maybe only those who ''pretend to be someone else '' understand that. I don't even know if I ever pretented, maybe I did, maybe I do now, who knows. We always can change and sometimes we like to act, for the comedy for example, for a show, even for some kind a videos. I think it's ok, we are creators and we can create anything we want. When I ask people how to be myslef, they say not to act. Really ? How we can create some content if we don't act. Can we tell about all the movie stars that they are not being themselves ? Can we say about them that they are pretending to be someone ?

If you pretend to be Batman, then you aren't being yourself, right?
It's not about acting, it's about being fake. An actor can act in a movie, but in interviews it's best if they relax and let their true personality come out. Are they good people or bad people?

It's also good to see the level of someone's acting if you see how they are when they aren't acting.
Dustin Hoffman is a brilliant actor, and I know this because he is not over the top crazy in his interviews. He's normal.

The subtle nuance here that I am trying to explain is that a lot of people on various platforms pretend to be wealthy. We can see looking at their wallets that they are not. This is the opposite of being yourself.
My videos on DTube have some acting, but I am 'being myself' in them.

It means not being arrogant or thinking you are better than other people, just being humble.

Yeah, being humble is important and not thinking that we are better than others is also importnat. Thanks god we can see tha wallets of others in steem blockchain, that means a lot of things. Also, it's good that we can track the activity of others, so we can know what kind of people they are. Thanks for your nice reply. ☺

Thank you also for your reply and following my stuff. Without an audience there would be no point to this.

You are right, that's why we have now all kinds of dtubesnaps, it's really a rovolutionary idea to make everyone more active. I hope you will try it as well. we have now

#dtubesnap a video less than 1 minute.

#dtubesnapplus a video more than 1 minute

#dtubenapq where you can ask a question

#dtubenapr where you can reply to a question.

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I will keep this in mind. It depends on what kind of video I want to do.
But it's always good to have more hashtags to use. I really want to do well
on DTube.

Not only hashtags I meant, but the ideas themselves. I just wrote the tags to show you an example of what we are all doing. By clicking on anyone you will see those types of videos.

It's not as hard as it looks like, just stop giving a single fuck about what others think. Not being you kills the you in you, and that's the fact. I guess it is just easier to be yourself instead of pretending something you are not. People are haters in general so no matter how you behave some of them will resent you and we can't do much about it.

ha! yes brother, nailed it! :) . ... also, let's do this as a video reply.

How exactly he nailed it @teamhumble ? Can you explain what do you exactly think about what you said ?

i sent a video, it will work, give it chance to process.

ok, let's wait, it's an intrigue for me lol ☺

The video is not working, can you send the link again please or edit ?

does work, just not updated the thumbnail it's processing.

It's much better if you record a #dtubesnapr created by @nathanmars , as you see the youtube video is still not working lol Maybe they have a problem with their server . lol ☺

nah i'm good, i'll use what i have! thanks! -- it works for me. thanks! just click play.

I clicked again and again, send the link here again , let see.

works for me! :) woot! :)

Hey bro! It's okay to people to think and create own way! we're all creative people and we can create our own ideas.

One of the main reason for DtubeSnapQ is to boost engagement and create more bond with the dtube community so do really like @teamhumble 's idea of replying with Youtube response!!

Thanks for being part our DtubeFamily:)

Yeah, I like it as well, because the reply was so instant. I watched that on youtube and replyed there as well, I also like to connect with people on youtube, that's why I'm uploading all the interviews I make on my youtube channel. I plan also to upload there the shows and other videos sent my our members, maybe we will be famous on youtube as well and we may promote steem there.

Thanks buddy!

I’m currently working of redefining the DtubeSnapQ and I’ll make you a little suprise :)

Finally it's working, it's really a good reply, thanks a lot. I like your reply, I willcomment in youtube as well. Thanks. ☺

no problem. all good! :)

Yeah, you are right, but I don't really care about that. I just want them now to reply me, I want to understand what they exactly mean about being ourselves. I think it's a big philosophical question that not that easy to answer. Let's see how they gonna answer, it's really interesting to watch. ☺

But wait, let's think well about your reply. You said

I guess it is just easier to be yourself instead of pretending something you are not.

Explain what you said. I'm not pretending to be someone else, that's me. But anyway I don't really understand how to pretend to be someone else, that's why maybe I don't know the answer.

I don't care about what people said, I just like to observe and understand thinking of people, you said :

just stop giving a single fuck about what others think.

I see that a bit rude, but it's ok. Let me discribe what I think about it. The first thing, you are telling me what to do in an order form. The second you are using the word ''f**k'' what I don't like. I'm not mad at you or something, I'm just trying to be honest with you.

Am I myself in this case because I told you exactly what I think ?

Why did you take this so personally, i was talking about the people in general and i stand behind it.

I don't really understand how to pretend to be someone else,

Are you actually trying to tell me that you haven't came across people who were pretending to be something they are not? If so i would like to visit that place one day.

you are telling me what to do in an order form.

Most definitely wasn't my intention to order you anything, like why should i wanted to do that?

you are using the word ''f**k'' what I don't like.

Ok, i respect that, altough i think the word "f**k" is the smallest problem we are facing and is a bit trivial to resent me but its your opinion.

Am I myself in this case because I told you exactly what I think ?

Yes i believe you are being honest here and i appreciate it, i really do. Constructive criticism is always welcomed and i believe that the World would be a different place if we were all honest with each other.

Stay tunned man :)

You are welcome, thanks for replying and being comprehensive. ☺

Like what you said also, there are so many sides and sentiment and segments and feelings and emotions to a person. Likewise to be myself. I just be how I be that moment. Sometimes I am strict. Sometimes I am playful. Sometimes I am serious. Sometimes I am moody. Sometimes I am sweet. Sometimes I feel pretty. Sometimes I am lame. Too many. I think we are all 'actor' and 'actresses' we can be many types of ourselves, yet we are not acting acting, we are still ourselves. Don't know how explain.

Use emoticons.

How to be myself:
😂😁😜😎🤣🤔😍🤐😫😤😭😠😈😇🤠🤓🙂😉

My many different version in a day. Haha
Okay, I think something like this. Myself. Lol

I understand you, you are right we can be different. The most important is the intention that we have after doing what we are doing. ☺

I hope that I will answer your question in few hours if I remember it.

In my opinion, it means be in your limits and don't try to be overacting.

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It's also subjective, I don't think we should liimt ourselves, whi we can always improve and change to the best. We even can overact to affirm our ideas and I don't see any issue in it.

Being yourself doesn't mean being the same all the time as some people think.
Being yourself and being different - does not contradict each other.

For me to be myself is to feel in a balance and integrity.
When I am who I am, I feel me in my place.
When I build something out of myself, there's a feeling of being lost.

for me "be yourself" means beleive in yourself, beleive in what you are doing, beleive in your skill. that's what i can say.

Nice outfit, by the way!😃