Happy Easter | What to say to rude people

in easter •  7 years ago 

You probably know someone that is always rude and ruins your mood every time you meet, but there are a few polite answers you could give them to make them stop.

Here are some examples of lines you should use to make your day better when someone annoys you.

Say “Thank you!” when someone offended you. Don’t be aggressive, stay calm, just say “thanks”. This way you’ll reduce to 0 the anger of that person and you’ll also maintain your maturity.

“I appreciate your point of view”. An answer like this will show that you can accept criticism in a rational way, not an emotional one.

Psychologists say that when someone makes rude comments about someone, they probably have a personal problem, and it’s not your business. When you give a nice and calm response, even the rudest person will show respect.

If you feel that the discussion is overwhelming you and you won’t be able to remain calm, simply say “The conversation is over”.

This way, you won’t ruin the relationship and you’ll also show that this kind of discussion is not acceptable for you.
Another answer you could give is “You’re right”. It might annoy that person, but most of the times, the conflict will be over.

When someone attacks you with words, try saying “You always find something mean to say, don’t you?”. It’s an emotional answer, but it will redirect the conversation to the other person, it’s a way of making someone “look in the mirror”.

Lastly, there is a line you could use that is a little sarcastic, but sometimes there’s no other way to talk to someone. The expression “What you said almost hurt my feelings” shows that whatever mean things someone has to say, their words don’t affect you.


Happy Easter!

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Happy Easter to you ! You're right Thank you is a magic word for all. I do the same. Very good advice !
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Kind words/responses work like magic and heal broken relationships.
Although there are some really mean people that are just impenetrable, no matter how kind you are to them.

HAPPY EASTER AND HAPPY NEW MONTH🎊.

Wow amazing post. Really, when you give a very calm answer to a rude or annoying person, the calm answer totally frustrates such person. Hahahaha. It will sure make them stop when their rudeness isnt getting to you. Or when you're showing its not.

Happy easter deat lots of love

Happy Easter to you too @Jwolf.
In northern Norway,​ there is still a lot of snow.

Kindest regards
@Siggjo.

Happy Easter To You Man !

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happy easter !!

Ignorance is a bliss

And what about this stupid asshole who has been giving a $1+ down vote without a comment every day for the last three days?

What's the username? I can't see

"(at)bloom" I would go confront him but $1+ downvotes take a chunk out of the reputation score.

Happy Easter have a great day :D

I said “conversation is over” to someone I turned around and began to walk and all of sudden they slapped the back of head yelling “conversation is not over”, that someone was my Ex GF. Safe to say we don’t have conversations anymore, even the violent ones. 🙂

Happy Easter @jwolf.