SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: Children are a reflection, a mirror of our attitude towards them.

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It is time for us parents to correctly prioritize our lives and not transfer the responsibility to others of raising our children; and direct our eyes to those who need it most and expect our support, love and care.

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• The life of our children is the result of our contributions. What we sow - we reap! It's time to sow good seeds! If you have or have already accumulated difficulties in relationships with children, try to let them know that you love them more than anything else, that they are the most important and valuable in your life.

If you are patient and sincere, the result will exceed all expectations. The hearts of the children know how to love and be grateful: just give time, and the good seeds sown by you will certainly come and bring a good harvest.

• Recognized as the wisest king, Solomon said: "The glory of the children are their parents." (Pr.17: 6) If the glory of the children is bad, to whom do they owe it? School, teachers, authorities, state? Who else are we used to blaming for our problems?
  
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The story of each person who is mired in various sins or has become addicted: drunkenness, drugs, prostitution, begins in the same way: "When I was little, my parents didn't pay attention to me, adults didn't pay attention to me. ". . In other words: "Nobody needed me at home." You can give food and clothes to your child, even gifts, but this does not mean you love him.

• To love is to sacrifice not only finances, but also your time, attention, Show sincere interest in all your affairs. Take responsibility for raising your children. Children should be obedient to their parents and not to another person. If not, there will surely be someone to educate them in their own way.
  
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Let's think, are we paying enough attention and love to our children, or are we buying presents and chasing them with shouts, breaking the rancor for our mistakes and failures for those who are helpless and who seek protection from us? Or, perhaps, we are leading at work, and future drug addicts and young prostitutes are born from abandoned children on the street? Why, even in rich families, with certified parents, children who sit in night bars are treated in drug dispensaries?

Perhaps at this time our children are giving us SOS signals in their own language: irritability, rebellion, open disobedience, indifference to everything, etc. Look for the cause and root of this children's behavior in ourselves. Understand your behavior in relation to the child. Children are a reflection, a mirror of our attitude towards them.

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