Beauvoir once said:
The great luck of a man is that he must embark on an extremely difficult path, whether he is an adult or a child, but this is the most reliable path;
The misfortune of a woman is to be surrounded by almost irresistible temptations; she is not required to work up, but is encouraged to slide down to bliss. When she realized that she was being fooled by the mirage, it was too late, and her power had been exhausted in the failed adventure.
If you are a girl, the biggest difficulties you have encountered from childhood to age are not that your family is poor, that you are not ugly, or that you are not good at studying. These are not important.
The biggest difficulty a girl has when she is young is that everyone around her wants to make her weak.
People around tell girls to depend on others，but later I discovered that no one can trust
Your parents will tell you, don't be too hard in this life, you can rely on your husband in the future;
Your teacher will tell you, if I did n’t see you like a girl, I would punish you to go out and stand;
Your friends will tell you that girls only need to work stably and don't make too much money.
In the end, you will find that your husband is also unreliable because you have no money and you cannot marry a too rich husband;
In the end, you will find that the teacher didn't punish you for hurting you, because no one will let you go out of school and into society;
In the end, you will find that the result of stable work without making too much money is that you don't have much money.
Don't train girls as weak ,because all greatness comes from the strong
Everyone is telling you not to divorce when you are married. Even if you marry personal scum, they will tell you that it is difficult for a woman to remarry.
Everyone is telling you, do n’t divorce if you have a child, even if your husband is only derailed after earning only ＄2,000 a month, they will tell you that you have children, and it ’s harder to remarry. Not to divorce is also your child.
This world is very difficult for women, but this difficulty does not come from the suppression of women by society.
On the contrary, this difficulty comes from the fact that society always poses a caring and polite face to women, so that most women cannot understand the nature of the jungle.
When you always cultivate a person as a weak person, when a pet is coddled, she loses the great possibility. Because all greatness comes from the strong.
The value of a woman lies not in the husband and wife, making sacrifices for the family and society, but in her right to choose. She can choose the husband and wife, or she can fight for a great dream.