We are all going to be wrong in our own ways. Some, more than others, and others more than some. We’re human and as a prerequisite, we will falter. As adults, it is our job to understand one and other and let the judgment be reserved to God or other higher being that you believe in.
The most dangerous weapon we have in this world are our thoughts. Our pathology is responsible for envy, greed, fear and most of all rejection. It is therefore of utmost importance that you keep ONLY positive people around you. Why is this? You can lose your job, your health, your friends and your family, if not surrounded by the correct people.
Imagine you are friends with individuals whose presence brings about doubt or curiosity about your living standards, lifestyle, job or even marriage. That thought surrounding all of these matters will NEVER leave your head. You may be distracted for a short period of time, but seeing that person will always come back to the same things.
Sometimes, the most toxic people come to us, disguised as family or friends. Individuals change, as do their pathologies. What someone meant you five years ago can certainly not hold to be true today. You must empower your company with individuals who CHOOSE to see the positive in you and around them as well. We are aware of our flaws or will be made aware of them as we continue our journey through life. Having an additional reminder will not do anything, as it only leads to self doubt, rethinking and eventually frustration.
Social Media is especially important when keeping people around. The personality of the people that on your Instagram and Facebook will certainly make a difference in the things you think about. You wont notice, but slowly and surely, the content on your newsfeed changes your tastes and aversions. Things you were once okay with, slowly you are not and vice versa.
Stay positive and keep positive folks around you!
Embrace change
Meet New People
Always Learn
Read New Things
Be Grateful
Be Happy