It's better to live yourself, as long as you are happy.

Cai Kangyong said: I encourage you to be a colder person.
Getting along with others, being too enthusiastic is actually a lack of reason. When socializing, you can get more happiness by being a little colder.
The feelings of adults are very fragile. Whether they are friends who have known for many years or relatives whose blood is thicker than water, they may not become a harbor for you to rely on at any time.
When you are unhappy, you may get only ridicule. When your career goes well, what you get is not blessing, but jealousy.
It's better to live yourself, as long as you are happy.