Not only to know the truth, but also to implement the truth.
Discover your own weaknesses and shortcomings.
Likelihood of achieving the goal = advantage * opportunity - disadvantage * threat
Self-introduction: features = memory points + sharing
Introduction to personal ability: ability = advantage ability + accumulation method + measurable achievement
Personal perfect introduction = characteristics + abilities + value (value, such as through me will be like this)
Convince others and prevent yourself from being deceived: facts, opinions, data, feelings, recaps
The mind can be freed, the language cannot be indulged.
People are always consuming love while looking for love, but in fact, love is around
Food and clothing are worry-free, simple and happy, success and fame, plain and plain
Wishful thinking = wishful thinking + accomplishing
Perfect praise = sincerity + praise skills (focus on the other person, what you care about)
Five praises: merit, effect (result), cause, impact on me, appreciation and envy of the other person
Wrong mindsets: avoidance (cowardice, I can't do it), fate (self-deception, bad luck, bad fate), self-denial (inferiority, superiority of others), blindness (greed, endless desire), procrastination (fear, not now), blame (conceit, feeling that others are inferior to yourself).
Thinking misunderstandings:
Result deviation, root drama outcome decision-making
Rare mistakes, such as limited-time promotions, limited editions
Over-set: over-optimistic, too many dishes
Survivor bias: Other people's entrepreneurial success, celebrity divorce says that there is no true love
Ready-made bias: Just take the medicine well, just say that this medicine cures all diseases
Ostrich effect: Ignore information that is not good for yourself
Decreasing reward effect: Most people like to increase praise and criticize less
(Truth = praise and criticism coexist)
Out of the thinking scam: In real life, many decisions are made by instinct, and the reasons for the choice are invented afterwards, and it makes us feel like we are making a sober decision.