It if costs your peace is so expensive...

Good night to all my friends from steemit !! For me it is a real pleasure to be here sharing more ideas, experiences, thoughts and everything that goes through my mind ...

Today I want to talk about one of the things that for me is the most fundamental in every human being and is "peace of mind". Yes, as they read. Personally I think that tranquility is a state that must always remain there, it must not be temporary or casual, it is a tranquility that must always be felt. I know how difficult this can be, most of the time we have a thousand things fluttering in our heads, a thousand and one worries about things we have or do not have to do, about tasks that we must fulfill and for needs that we must fulfill.

But there is something particular about all this and it is that, in my opinion, it is preferable to have in your head the really important things and those that are priority to have all that together plus an extra worry, or "a constant headache". I do not mean literally a headache, but we know very well that we always have something there, present, that we try to ignore, that we think is already solved or that it does not have "so much" importance, but it is just the opposite

And it is that these small headaches are consuming us little by little, they charge us and much more when they are things that we have not yet finished healing. Reaching peace of mind takes a long time and consists of several procedures, For me the main one is Forgiving. Not all this is easy (I include myself), from time to time our pride can be much stronger than us but what use is so much pride if that makes us move away from who we really are?

From time to time we should have the luxury of having a time for ourselves and analyze what it is to have grudges with someone close or dear, knowing that this will not let you be calm for who knows how long and if it is really necessary to have that grudge in instead of leaving it behind ...

Another happy procedure to reach that peace is to stop, think and thank for the new opportunities that we have in our lives every day that passes. There are times when we simply do not value small things, especially everyday things, so sometimes we need a push and think that while you may be complaining about whatever you are doing, there is someone in the world wanting to do that. From being able to eat, to having the opportunity to study or work, to be able to have the opportunity to have your loved ones.

Rate every second, live it and enjoy it and keep in mind that NO life is perfect and that if you are going through a difficult, dark or whatever you want to call it is important to remember that God squeezes but does not hang and that you have to have patience because absolutely everything It has an end. The negative of this phrase is that just as everything has an end we do not know when it can be ours. So I go back and I repeat, live every day "as if it were the last" will sound very cliché, I know, but there is a lot of truth in that phrase.

In addition to all these procedures there is something that is VERY worse VERY important, and that is that we must be careful in whom we place our trust and whom we decide to give ourselves (valid for the loving or friendly environment). Usually, when we love someone a lot, the heart does not understand the reasons and we will always reach the point where we become blind to feelings, this can be a bit detrimental to our peace of mind. Sometimes without realizing it we fall into a very deep hole that we believe is right, sometimes we accept things that we think are good but deep down we know they are not. Those same things are what make us distrust ourselves, make us doubt our own being and fall into the most common mistake and believe that this can be called "love" and we forget that we should always be our priority.

With the passage of time I have learned that nothing is worth more than having peace of mind, and that nothing gives you more happiness than feeling at ease with yourself and your own life. Once you get this peace, you will never want to lose it.

I hope you enjoyed this post. See you another time, and keep in mind that if something costs your peace, it is very expensive.