PLANTED BEFORE THE APPOINTMENT?

Surely you have stayed with a girl, and at the last moment, you can not go. It does not matter the excuse: that it is wrong, that his mother has urgently asked to make a message, that he has forgotten that today he has had another commitment ... Whatever. The fact is he has done you a trick. So I am very sorry, my friend, but you must accept that there is a 99% chance that you simply have an excuse, because the reality is that you do not want to stay with you. When this happens to you, the first thing to do is calm down and take control of the situation. This means that he answers the message to the call as if nothing had happened, as if it were not because he has other things to do. In other words, do not be reactive. You tell her that it's okay, that nothing happens, and that she can use to see friends who call you to go ... or rather, that your friend Sonia called you and that you're going to take advantage to see her. Or that nothing happens because, with justice, you were going to call him to say the same thing because you had a problem at work that you have to solve. Or yes, it had been for the movies, the dice that do not worry, that in any way they are going to go. But, really ... Do it! I mean ... Say it! Do not remain silent, and even if you go into shock, react as quickly and naturally as possible. Then she asked how your friend Sonia was talking about what you say is great, because the truth is that you do a lot. What if I do not ask what movie was to see and it really is not gone, you're done ... I do not know ... nothing ... What do you think of Sonia? And there is no one who can deceive you, because you probably have a message that says you could not stay when you could. This is a reality bath for that girl who left you standing at the last moment. Because yes, because you can do other things, you can have more life than her and you may like more girls and not just her. Therefore, they will most likely come to you the next time you do and will not let you hang. Now, if you re-plant it a second time, you must have a side in a jovial and fun way. For example: "Go, then, many years of useful life, something always happens at the last moment" But if you want, you do not have to see you again, what is that? ****** So this time you do it again, but this time you create ice. That is: create distance, separate it, you are not responding the message to the second in which you send, you are not aware of their calls, the skills that perform Devolvents ... Do not worry: stay away. I mean, do not pay much attention. That she realizes that she is not satisfied with her attitude as a small, spoiled girl.PLANTATION BEFORE THE APPOINTMENT? But look, do not tell him: let him know. Usually, the best way to avoid shocks is with a solid game. During the temporary bridge, that is, since the girl and you separated until you found again, you can spend a lot on the life of that girl. Even she has been able to meet another guy. But a solid game is what makes you really want to see you again