SATURDAY NIGHT WITH ZIZY

A very good evening to you all. It is another beautiful Saturday and it is time for your favourite show, "Saturday night with zizy". For a while the show was on pause due to some reasons and if you are very observant, you will notice there are some little changes but not to worry, this is how it is going to be from now onward.

It's been a great journey so far and like always I would still love to appreciate those who have been faithful to this show. They kept checking in to know what's happening and I'm truly grateful for that. @eurogee, @mhizdais, @samest, @ifeoluwa88, @t-flames, @adoore-eu, @dubem-eu, @one-person, @dklef, @itoroarchibong, @imbigdee, @bookons, @Korexe, @rebeccafl, @burlarj. Thank you so much guys. To @surfyogi, thank you do much for your amazing support so far.

Without much ado, DJ play the music in jenifa's voice.

RELATIONSHIP TALK WITH ZIZY

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There is a common saying with particular reference to woman and it goes thus, "Use what you have to get what you want." Whoever created this saying must be a woman because it only takes a woman to understand the power of a woman. Don't let your mind drift so far to the dirty side of that statement though, it is a very innocent and practical statement. I say this because as women, we are vessels, now it is up to you to determine what vessel you want to be.

Flirting comes naturally to women. It gives us a form of sexiness and this gives us the power to be a seductress. Flirting makes us feel admired and desired and get some stolen glances from the opposite sex. You would agree with me that it is a great feeling. Today I am going to be talking to us how to be a seductress.

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Now, being a seductress doesn't necessarily mean you need to be a slut. There is a thin line between class and crass. You can be sexy without revealing any part of your body or too much. According to Wikipedia, seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person to engage in a relationship with you. It doesn't necessarily have to be a sexual relationship. We see people we like and we really want to get up close and personal with such a person but sometimes we do not know how to go about it. Before you can seduce a man, it is important to know how a man thinks.

As a woman, your femininity holds much more power than you can imagine. Learning how to use your feminist puts you at a great advantage above your fellow females.

HOW TO SEDUCE A MAN

• Be Self Confident

Self confidence is like a force of attraction that pulls people towards you. A woman with self confidence is a sexy woman. Even if you are an ugly Betty, you can whip yourself into that woman with confidence. It musn't be about the face, everyone had a unique quality. Find your quality and work on using it to build your ego. Find your charms. Beauty is no longer on the inside, it is now on the outside. Men are moved by what they see. Wear beautiful hairstyles and don't wear a particular hairstyle for too long. Get off those oversized clothes that hides all your curves and edges and find something sexy and decent. Learn to wear makeup to give the face a little lift. Be neat and smell nice. Men are drawn to women who wear nice cologne.

• Be Unique

Stand out from the crowd. Break out from an ordinary woman and make yourself rare. Rare commodities are always high in demand. Men love the thrill of a chase and they love it more when you are unpredictable. Become a puzzle for him to solve. When the thinks he knows you are too formal, show him the crazy part of you he has never seen before and when he thinks you are too uptight, let him know you are all things sexy. This way you get him hooked wanting to know more and unsure of your personality. Let there be something about you he just can't figure out.

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• Be outspoken.

Command of English is an important factor to consider when desiring to be seductress. Men love women who are good orators. Show him you can represent anytime anywhere. Ever wondered why guys get hooked when they hear a lady's voice on phone even without seeing her? Learn to sound like a lady, soft and delicate not bossy. Learn your tenses and use them well. It is not our mother's tongue but it is our lingua franca. If you want to seduce an educated man, you have to sound educated.

• Be smart not opinionated.

Do you know that High IQ equals high sex demand? Most men are sapiosexual, they find intelligence highly sexually appealing. Men love women who can hold a conversation and who can make them laugh. Study wide and be a lady who has little knowledge about different subjects. Ask him challenging questions and even handle a little free spirited debates with him, you will have him desiring you more. An opinionated woman always want to have her way and gets angry when it is otherwise. A woman who never want to accept she's wrong is not sexy in anyway.

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Sexiness is your default setting as a woman but an upgrade to a better version is highly recommended. Learn to smile a lot. Create your expressions. Stand in front of the mirror and learn how to smile sexily, laugh mischievously, discreetly lick your lips and how to wink while smiling after all who rules the world? Girls!

DATING TIPS

Cuddle, make ample time for cuddling. Whether or not it leads to sex, physical affection is important.

FUN CORNER (JUST FOR LAUGHS)

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You are visiting your boyfriend/girlfriend in his/her house for the first time and shit calls, would you take a poo in the house?

DEAR ZIZY

ANONYMOUS 1

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Please help me. My marriage is just 3 months old and I have been battling with an issue that is giving me sleepless night. My wife sees me as someone who is upright and can't hurt a fly but while in school, I was involved in a couple of activities that shouldn't be heard of. The thing is, those involved still Call me for little favours and I don't have a choice but to oblige their requests. They won't leave me alone because I was very good at it while I was in school so they still see me as the best man for the job but I have changed. I am no longer the same person and I feel like I should tell my wife this secret but I am afraid it may change everything. I love her so much I don't want to lose her. Please what do I do?

CONCLUSION

Its been a fun ride all the way down here and i hope you enjoyed every part of it. The show has finally come to an end but it wouldnt be complete without your comments. If you have comments on all segments, you are allowed to express yourself and check out other peoples comment too. It's always fun interacting.

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Until next week when I shall come your way again,

I still remain your host

@zyzymena.