How do you really show people you value them,today we were having an argument in one of my female groups on WhatsApp.
One of us got married without any invitation to the group, though we were aware from other sources that something like that was going to happen but there was no indication of the date and all of a sudden we saw pictures,Lo and behold it was today.
And bimmmm!!!
The argument came up,everyone was like,how come she didn't even invite us and later she showed up in the group and said she didn't want to border us for the location that she would just invite us for the wedding, different arguments came up and it was like,"she should have just said something about at least for the house to be aware".
Some are saying she shouldn't be blamed that it's by choice,we should just congrat her and let it die.
Others like me said it isn't proper,anyhow it was supposed to be,the house should be informed,the location should be left for interested parties to worry about.
The question is does it show she really values us???
What's your opinion??
P.S : Also posted on whaleshares by me!
I'm also in this and my take is this; Her act doesn't show any sense of value. Occasions like this ought to (not just ought, rather are,)celebrated with friends and loved ones.
She should have invited first, to show that she recognises and values our friendship and love, rather than worrying her head about difficulty in locating the venue.
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