In Sunan at-Tirmidhi from Ma'qil ibn Yasar that he married his sister to a man of the Muslims during the time of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam. He was together for some time, then mentally and not until he reached his iddah out, then drunk and he also motivated. Ma'qil said, "The people do not like it, I have glorified you and married you from then you mentaknya. By Allah you will not return forever. "
But finally Ma'qil Changed his attitude, he allowed after Allah Subhanahu waTa'ala lowered the above verse as a form of obedience to Him.
The word of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam, "The widow is more entitled to her than her guardian." (Muslim).
Shaykh Shafiyur Rahman al-Mubarakfuri in Ithaf al-Kiram said, "If the wali means marrying the widow, but he refuses, then he does not improve. And if he wished his guardian refused, then his guardian recovered, if the guardian refused, then the judge married him and the right of the guardian