Married is soothing, reassuring, happy. We will be much more awake when married, we can both subdue each other's views, and what we do inshaAllah can get reward from God Hopefully those who read and have intentions soon get married, can be facilitated and hastened by God.
During courtship times, the lover will always be dressed beautifully in front of her boyfriend, say gentle, smile sweet and ugly ugly covered up
The courtship will feel unconverted if it appears something ugly from him. If it is said to be courting as a way to get to know a couple before marriage, the fact that the exploratory is much different from when married
When married, each other does not have to look beautiful or handsome when at home. Not necessarily also constantly meet in a state of fragrant or fragrant. Even in marriage there is a couple who say rude that this is not encountered during the courtship first
Yet Islam has given way that recognize the couple can be from four hah beauty, dignity, wealth or good or not religion.
The woman was married because of four factors namely religion, dignity, wealth and beauty. Choose a good woman of religion. If not, you will undoubtedly be a loser.
Knowing the prospective partner is enough through these four things. The four things can be known from a close family or from a close friend of the couple. So, not necessarily through the spouse directly
If there is already a way that Islam outlines, still looking for another way to get to know a couple? So what should know a potential partner through courtship?
Know that marriage is a sign of wanting to be serious, while courtship just wants to continue dipermainkan. Do not be surprised if anyone has been dating for years, but their marriage is not up to a year so dissolved
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