Others in my Ordinary Life

I believe that in our respective lives we all go through similar fears, happiness, sorrows, and disappointments. Some times its better to see things from others point of view or say perspective as they won’t be biased and most importantly won’t judge us (most of the times). So why not share it and take it easy on ourselves? What exactly are we scared of? Let me guess – Society!

Why do we care about society judging us? Why can’t we be ourselves? Our parents want us to be educated and independent – but are we really independent? I think not! We still have to mend our ways just to keep this so-called society in which our parents reside happily. Why impose things on us?

Let’s be honest here... how many times have you given in to this question: “What will people think?” The answer may be half of our lives….

Who are these people? Who makes them the JUDGE or the primary JUDGE of our lives? The answer, unfortunately, it's ME. I give power (mental power in my mind) to judge me. I have seen so many people not exactly doing what they want only because of the fear to be judged.

But here I’m writing this blog because I know no one can make me feel inferior without my permission. My husband being in SEO uses technical terms caution me – Blogging is a serious business… Do you think you can do this?

Why undermine me? Let me fail and if I do it will be a stepping stone to my success. I guess with every mistake I will grow to do why fear to fail?! Why can’t we celebrate failure the same way we celebrate success…I don’t remember my success as clearly as I remember the reasons/lessons learned when I failed.

I shouldn’t fear failure in return I should be happy that at least I gave it a try. Remember whilst we were growing up how many times did we fall before we started walking … did we give up then … every time I fell I got up and each step took me closer to my dream ….. My dream to walk.

If your parents or elders do not understand this sit with them and demand your right to fail and prosper. I love my husband to bits and I know that he is well aware of blogging but this is my step and I'm ready to fall only to raise and follow my dreams.

– From a woman who is open to falling only to rise.