I mean you as a guardian do not sell your daughters by assigning expensive high dowries plus the material requirements of applicants in the hope of being sprayed. It is a marriage contract with a dowry plus not a sale, but if the dowry is set so high, especially if with extra here and there, is not it difficult to distinguish from selling, especially if the guardian is expecting some of it or all of it?
Fixed high dowries plus the pluses that should be borne by applicants, all that will only reduce the blessing of marriage, making girls down the blessing, because among the sign of a woman's blessing is easy to marry one of the indications is the lightness of the dowry.