I love Matthew. Haha. I found this by looking to see if he were on this site yet.

I've always felt that a guy should pay the first few dates (although I also always offer). It says something about his willingness to make a woman feel as she is (and there are exceptions to that: like if he isn't doing so hot at work at the moment).

But every time I watch this video, I cringe when she says 4-5 months. At one month, I'm already as concerned about my partners finances as I am my own. Not that I'm trying to control it, but I am aware of it and doing what I can to keep him from always paying for everything.