It is impossible for everything to go smoothly in life. So, don’t take others seriously because it’s not worth it; don’t take yourself seriously because it won’t hurt you; don’t take the past seriously because it’s meaningless; don’t take reality seriously because it will continue.
Excessive modesty will turn into hypocrisy, overconfidence will turn into arrogance, excessive principle will turn into rigidity, excessive openness will turn into indulgence, excessive dignity will turn into shelving, excessive humility will turn into cowardice, excessive easygoing will turn into blind obedience, excessive Courage becomes arrogant, over-savvy becomes selfish, and over-outspoken becomes reckless. Life has a degree. Loss of degree is wrong, loss of degree is sorrow, and loss of degree is good.
In this world, there are too many why there is no answer, and there are too many answers without why. This road can only be walked on by one person, regardless of attitude.
There are four three regrets in life: do not choose, do not insist on choosing, and keep choosing; three do not struggle: do not fight for fame and fortune with the gentleman, do not fight for profit with the wicked, do not fight for profit with the world; there are three ways in life: see through, imagine, hold on, Let go, straighten up, and walk steadily; the three major traps of life: carelessness, credibility, and greed; the three major tragedies of life: not learning when you meet a good teacher, not making friends when you meet a good friend, and not making friends when you meet a good opportunity.
The only thing in the world that you can get without work is poverty. The only thing that can be created from nothingness is a dream. Nothing can be done without hands. Although the world is cruel, as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way!
Indecision is the greatest negative energy in life. There is no good in life. From the perspective of life, any choice on your life path is wrong, no matter how you choose, there will be mistakes; therefore, when a choice comes, choose one and go. There is no right or wrong in life. Only after you choose to persist can you not regret it. Persevere is right.
If a person cannot control his emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, sooner or later you will destroy everything. If you cannot be the master of the mind, you will become the slave of emotions. Remember: temper is always stronger than ability.
The fool sees himself as a listener of life, walks through the stories of others, and becomes a passer-by in life; the weak see himself as a supporting role in life, think of himself as small, and speak in the shadow of others all his life; the strong see himself as the protagonist of life Feel the existence of God and work hard to act; the wise see himself as the director of life, control the circumstances of life by himself, arrange the plot of the story by himself, and deduce a wonderful chapter.
The right place in life is not by money or power, but by the soul; true happiness is not wealth or rights, but a clear conscience.
In life, only half asleep and half awake can you be happy; in life, only half awake and half drunk can you be happy. Right or wrong, who is right and who is wrong, why care so much; pain and joy, like the song of life, appear in life, remembered with gratitude. The person who missed has no next stop; the thing that is missed has no next life; own, cherish; can do, grasp.
You have to go through many pitfalls in life. Anyone can help you for a while, but not for a lifetime. Don't rely on, don't pray. Dependence will only make yourself weak. Prayer is only a comfort. Self-power is the final decision.
Same words and deeds. Speaking in front of others seems to be showing yourself, but you are actually naked and exposed to others' eyes. Sometimes silence is a kind of self-protection. If you talk too much, you will lose. Don't let the privacy in your heart disappear. Think twice before the event, be tough during the process, and don't regret it afterwards. Only by taking a long-term view and taking a firm step can life be more satisfied and less regrettable.
With an optimistic attitude, we should stay in the same boat with our loved ones, accompany our friends, and rely on our relatives. We should cherish what we can cherish. We shouldn't have to wait until we are old to regret, but we can't buy tickets for the journey back and forth in life.
Life is like this, some things are simple and complicated, some affection is thick and thin; some people are far and near; some fate is gathering and scattered. I believe that some people and things can be seen clearly after a period of time.
Don't confuse desire and ideal. The end of desire is the possession of material, and the end of ideal is the fulfillment of the spirit.