Wow... for your Tom. Ours was only 4 weeks early, but he had a traumatic birth, and didn't feed (he's 7 & still doesn't eat properly). What a heart wrenching , confusing, frustrating, joyful, saddening time that was... I know you know what I'm talking about! Our Tom spent 3 weeks in the intensive care ward. My daughter called the hospital "mummy's home" when we went to visit... Getting all the feels again writing this...