The greatest happiness of a person is to find the right person, he can tolerate you, consider you, and always understand you. Understanding requires trust and care, both of which are essential!
People who believe in you will stand by your side unconditionally and understand you self-evidently. Those who care about you will put you in their place to consider your situation, and your explanation will become redundant.
For those insignificant, his role is just a rush of your life, and you don't even like you. Do you need to put effort into this "dislike"?
I once quarreled with my partner and felt aggrieved. My family doesn't understand, and my friends don't have time to help me. I found a colleague who had worked with me for a long time to chat with him. I thought I would get relief from him, but in the end I found that he didn't care at all and just wanted me to stop complaining.
Therefore, I gave up complaining and pressed my thoughts to the bottom of my heart. It wasn't until I met a depressed teacher on the Internet that I slowly resolved my doubts and discovered that my marriage was already having problems.
I don't want to explain, I have already decided.
In fact, in many cases, explanation also requires cost. Instead of wasting time unnecessarily, focus on doing what you want to do.
People who don't have you deep in your heart won't really help you, so please don't be honest with everyone. Instead of wasting time to explain, it's better to be yourself.
The only way to get along with others is to leave one-third of the room to the other party.
Talking less and doing more is a kind of inner cultivation and the greatest grace to others! Remaining humble is a humble state of mind and respect for others.
Sometimes, explaining to people who don’t know you is just a waste of words.
Therefore, this is not to say that you are not good enough, but that you did not meet the right people.
One book wrote:
In the past, I always tried to explain and reason because I was afraid of offending others, afraid of being hostile, and afraid of changing little emotions.
Now, if I don’t explain or reason, I’m still worried about wasting time, I’m afraid it will blur my attention, and I’m afraid it will affect my desire to feel the world.
Life really doesn't need much explanation. From now on, you must consciously insist on being yourself and learn to take the time to do what you want to do.
Only in this way can it be said that this life is worthwhile.
The rest of your life is very precious, don't be nosy, don't live humble! What do others think, why should they care too much?
The best way to break the rumors is to keep working hard, then stand to a height that no one else can reach and smile calmly!