I remember the day I realized my actions were being followed. My husband at the time was stationed in Hawaii and I was in the states. I had moved recently but had not put in a change of address anywhere. I lost my credit card and called the bank to inform them and they said they would mail me another card right away. I said I have moved you will need my new address, they stated they had it. And they did. I called my husband and ask him if he had informed anyone of my move and he said he had not. It changes your perspective on many levels.