Dear Diary: I Am Sad In A Way That My Siblings Have Small Families

in family-protection •  7 years ago  (edited)

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Just my Sideviews on things

I have a neighbor couple, the woman grew up as a malnourished child and that actually made her speak like she is a child because possibly her brain didn't get much nutrients for that part of her brain that processes her ability to speak normally. But it also shows on her overall body physically but she can do physical work.

Her husband also has the same situation but can converse well and have a very good physique. They are both mentally challenged so to speak and you know what? They both have lots of children already considering both of them cannot even sustain their food needs and in fact their children begs for foods in the neighborhood.

Sometimes I would hear their children walking deep in the night crying for some reason because their parents are always hanging out in the streets and they are with them. The couple had a few of their children die because of neglect and those were newborns while others "survived" because our neighborhood quite support them as well with foods when they beg for it.

What I mean is that they are actually not fit for being a parent because for one thing they cannot even support themselves, they both have some mental issues which soon will affect how their children sees them and still they already had a lot of children.

Now my siblings are quite different, they are are graduates with a degree in college, both couples have jobs. One of my brothers and his wife works in the same paper factory with a good salary while my other brother is a teacher with a good ranking and his wife also is a teacher and schooling again as a lawyer. They all have jobs and are quite capable of having a quite medium-sized family.

But they had chosen a small family because they all have two children each while my sister have three daughters which could have been only two as well because they are only trying to have a son which they failed to have.

I am just sad because if one of the two children will get a problem, there is only one sibling the can run into for help. So what if they are not okay with each other? then the one with a problem can no longer get a support from their supposed sibling.

I realized that factor when I first had a problem with my medical needs many years ago when I was just starting in dialysis when only one brother of mine is helping me all throughout and the others could not even buy me a tablet of medicine. So I was quite lucky that had a one helping sibling out of the three. But supposing that I had only the one that is not helping me, I might not be even here now telling you this.

I just thank God that he had given me one supportive brother out of the three although he won't indulge in cryptos LOL. All of them aren't interested BTW but its okay. But now God had give me steemit which acts more than a close sibling unto me by supporting me selflessly. I just pray to God to repay you all. God bless you and keep you and his face shine upon you.

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bro. nagmessage po ako sa discord nyo. Hiro Yamagishi po name ko

Hello po @cryptopie, nalaman ko lng po na kapatid din po kau from @hiroyamagishi. Sarap nman makakita ng kapatid d2 sa steemit :)

SsD po Sis.
Sana loobin lahat ng kapatid magsteemit na rin and adopt to using cryptocurrencies.
God Bless you and keep you.

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Ha ha But what I intend to convey was a blessing and not cursing.
You are supportive and caring to me and I believe that God has a special place for you too.

As you mentioned that "God had give you steemit which acts more than a close sibling unto you by supporting you selflessly." This is absolutely correct. I also want give big thanks to God for giving me a lots of opportunity @cryptopie

mate spirit and keep fighting @cryptopie visit at my steemit once @togel-cs86

Thanks forthis sharing i appreciate your family protection i have to shar. Thanks goods i will be all steemit friends best of luck my dear friends..

Do u know the story of Joseph in the bible very well. His brothers wanted to kill him but one suggested that they should sell him . It was his selling that lead him to be the great man who he was and he changed his family life. What I am trying to say is your brother helped you because he knows you will be great and now that your star is shinning you are helping out your family. You are the Joseph in your family.

That is so sweet you compare my life story in that of Joseph's.

Yeah that is the real fact people just producing kids and do not care them of food, education and so on. God will not give them blessings due to this bad behavior of them with children. May God give them right path to take care everyone nd ther children Amen

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I'm a bit breathless, there are extra fluids in my body. Not well really.

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God will continue blessing your brother as he helps you ....In no time you will get better and work and help your younger ones in need too
I prayed for you this morning in no time u will get better ,andThe steemit community is always there for you

May allah bless you.

That's why I remain single - I can't even feed myself hehe glad my parents feed me (^_^)

Oh Wow It has been a while ever since I had some grouper fissh as Sinigang.
You tease with that @pinay.

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I am lucky in Sorsogon it is plentiful :)

You are so blessed I agree.
I guess that it's cheap there, lovely.

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Yes it is cheap here compare to Manila and I could even have it for free when my teen nephews/cousins go fishing :)

Thanks for sharing, cryptopie!

Sad story of your neighbours and you are right if they both have mental problems then they should not increase their family and @cryptopie steemit community best wishes are with you :) Get well soon :)

Live your story @cryptopie. Thank God for tge gift of a helping brother and at the same time praying for those who do not have any to have. Thanks for sharing.

I also Pray fir him like you. (please Follow Me To Get Latest health related articles and videos)
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I look for no reward, my reward is seeing you survive the hard life you are enduring, and that one way or the other we must endure in our own lives. It's part of this imperfect world and that we must endure till the end. What better way than to vote and this help another fellow brother in Christ, is that not what Jesus asked of us, "to be imitators" of him?

God will heal thee

So sad @cryptopie

so sad boss....may allah blass you.....♦@cryptopie