Where to relax your soul, family or others?
To everybody, family played the most important role in his/her childhood. Food, sleep, play and love consist of nearly all in his/her little world. As growing up, colorful outside world attracts more eyesight from us gradually. We spent more time outside and didn’t want to come home till very late every day. Running, sport, playing games, climbing mountains with friends and classmates, we almost forgot our family. In our mind, home’s a place where we ate and slept.
When we entered high school, especially senior school, we found difference and charms from opposite sex. Strong interest in them activated crazy emotions from deep inside our hearts, like volcano eruption. This kind of feelings led us to be mature. We dropped lines to those whom we liked and searched chance to express our admire for them. This type of emotion was so sweet and intoxicating. You felt the sky’s more blue, the air more fresh, the girl (boy) coming to your dream frequently. You were tasting delicious candle dinners with lover. Family was of no sense of presence during the time.
When grown up and striving for life, difficulties, unsatisfactory salary, boring boss and colleagues and work pressure is unbearable for you. Such things drove you go insane. Afraid of parents’ concern for you, you’re individually bearing stress, which nearly forced you to end life. But you still insist in undertaking it and find a way out. In that case, you regard family as bottom line mentally and rest your soul in it. Home is the warmest and safest place for those hurt heavily by the society. Full of scars and wounds, your heart and body will relax completely.
What about those who ever told you sweet words and promised a whole life love for you?
When troubles caught you, they left you and searched for new happiness. It seemed that they’ve never met you before. Without love and sweet words, reality is ruthless and cold, to live or to die. During the most dangerous time, you received full support from your family, no need to pay back. As your parents love you selflessly, more than themselves.
I’ve ever told my daughter you are the great pride to me and it’s the happiest moment in my life seeing your birth.
So did my parents!