The mother of my child and I are communicating again!

in family •  7 years ago  (edited)

The mother of my child and I are communicating again! What a journey it has been for us as parents. Bridges were burned and she was completely unresponsive to me as I sent letters, emails and money...
Deep internal shifts have been made on my end and all of a sudden she is responding and we are making a new connection as our son, Oakley James Frost is growing. It has been excruciating, devastating to not be in his life as his father.
We are talking now and things are looking good that I will be able to be in his life now as his mother is softening her demeanor.
Thank you to Klara Fischerova for the Family Constallations work thats been instrumental in this healing.
Therapy twice a week for 7months has also made a huge, transformative impact!
I am in a state of so much gratitude and appreciation and have learned so much from this whole process as deeply traumatic and painful as it’s been.
To have my son in my life will make me yhe happiest man on earth!
I share this to let you see me and also as a testament to the power of making small, steady, consistent steps in healing.
When outward relationships become harmonious as a result, its clear that miracles happen and all the striving is completely worthwhile.
What are you involved in which is helping you tranform, heal and grow?
...and how do you see that affecting the relationships in your life near and far?
Happy NEW YEAR!

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That's a good thing, children especially males need a father figure in their lives at they grow.

I so agree with you. I maintain my persistence <3

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Happy to hear such good news. The world is in a weird state. Here in Bulgaria, like at least 90% of parents I know get separated and children grow in this environment of parents fighting, being with other partners and what not. They have became so egocentric, that the psyche of their child is put aside. From the bottom of my heart, I wish you a happy relationship with you family <3

Thank you gabchik. I never thought this would be what happened and it has been the hardest experience of my life. I pray every day for my son and his mother!