Marriage is NOT a state institution hecate. That's a public school myth along with many other such indoctrinations. It is primarily a religious and cultural institution which has been shown to be important for the purpose of raising kids. The state only got involved with "licensing" marriage to allow for inter-racial marriage which is reportedly biblically prohibited and was not legal for many decades. Look it up. You have a right to marry with no "license". It is not a state-granted privilege despite propaganda.

In any divorce, (which should have legitimate grounds like adultery, addiction, or abuse), the state's/church's only legitimate role is to PROTECT individual rights and children's relationships with their parents at all cost, NOT to destroy them and turn it into a child trafficking INDUSTRY for profit as is the situation today. If an immature idiotic parent just decides they're not having sufficient "fun" anymore and wants to make decisions according to their hormones and 'feelings' and go party with new sex partners (a very common and destructive theme for 'mothers' around age 30-37 as their biological clocks are winding down), she should not then be granted control of the children and have her extremely destructive and immoral behavior further REWARDED with funds extorted from the responsible parent opposing it all. So-called 'no-fault' divorce is a cancer upon the family, children, and society and it's all being done BY DESIGN. Sure, you should be free to have the relationships you want AND suffer all accompanying consequences at your OWN expense. I agree that no one should get married under today's diabolical, pro-destruction, pro-theft, anti-family, anti-child system which punishes good and rewards evil.