Great things will fall in right time, places and decisions are in with it.
Building a good career and making a family is a choice, and this would depend on every situation of one's occurred - it is a tough one. Then, how would you decide to choose? Heart or Career... I have noticed a lot of people weighing heart over career and just to make a direct one, I will base on my sister's predicament situation.
I and my sister been wanted to provide my parents in a comfortable haven, so she made a decision that she thinks and I think that she draw a right one - to continue working. Since I am 25 years old and she is 5 years ahead of me, probably she is at her 30. And I guess, 30 is old enough to marry and very late to start making a family. Even Mama said to her before that she needs to.
When she flew back to Cebu City for work. She got a good news came from her Manager. She will be leading and be supervising the Visayas area. But before that promotion, she asked to dwell near branch to our home, in Cagayan De Oro. It takes 3-4 hours depending on weather situations(She loves sleeping with my MAMA). In about the promotion, her Manager asked her to stay since they need her, the reason of she has a potential as Supervisor. She has a right to refuse but she thinks of good privileges coming. I told her " It was a timely offer " she added, " and relevant!". Nevertheless, she heartedly decided to accept the offer and she is about to reach the peak of her career. But how about making a family?
She and her boyfriend been 7 years together, but they occasionally see each other. For more than 6 years, land to ocean is their distance, my sister works in Cebu City and her boyfriend is working in Bukidnon City. Too far right? Don't need to ask, middle of Mindanao and Visayas (Thousands of Kilometers). Since they are busy both of their careers, Mom is really sad to them. Actually, she asked me to tell my sister that she needs to settle. But my sister response was "she wants to, but she is scared not to provide the right needs of her future children".
If you are in her situation "Family or Career"?
Another great article, Jun! I’d choose... both? 😂
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hehehe salamat nicoiiiiiiiiii... lodi!
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@epicdominic wag mona mag marry. aga pa para sau. lol
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I'd choose family over career. I'd definitely find ways to still pursue my career even after having a family. Time is gold as what they say. I don't want to miss out on the beautiful things that life has to offer just because of my career. anyway, this is just my opinion. 😁
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Maam enji. i think you have got a point, I respect it. hehehe. Sadyang nasasayangan pa si ate... kasi gusto tumolong sa amin. hehh
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iba kasi sir pag babae, may expiration ang alam mo na. haha may kailangang habulin na oras d tulad sa mga lalaki na anytime pwede magfamily. haha. ang bait ng ate mo and sobrang mapagmahal talaga sa family pero for sure gusto na dn ng parents mo ng apo from her haha
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hahaha.. tama ka jan maam enjie.. ung tita ko nga 35 na xia ngayon d pa nag married. hahaahah.. iwan. baka walang nangligaw. haha
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hmm careeer
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hey sexy, thanka for passing by
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With my recent experience, I think facing your career is the right thing. He who has seen will know better.
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hehehe.. true sir.
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30 is still young, let her still enjoy her career and save for her future family. Maybe her bf is not yet proposing that's why she is still focus on her career?
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hehehe... true friend poi. hehe
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I commend your sister for having such concern with family. I choose career.
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hehe thanks ate.
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It is actually a choice that she can only decide. I salute her love to your mama. ❤❤
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hehe that is so true ate. hehehe.. ganern!. hrhrh
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Yah she can choose both...tell her haha, your mom will be happy to see her grandchildren...
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hehe that is true sir attorney. hehehe...
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Career first coz we need money money but you hehehehe I want money money but you hahahahaha.. anyways ofcourse career you need to build your own career first before building your own family.
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is this u piggybear?
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Your one and only piggybear and I do not know what will I do hahahaha.. teach me how to dogie teach me how to dogie HAHAHAHA.
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hahahaj...pm me on facebook.. i'll give instructions.
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yes piggybear hehehehe see you there :)
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