Values, Family and Work

The family nucleus plays an important transcendental role in the social life of the people. When we talk about the loss of values ​​we must turn our eyes and examine the family as the source from which values ​​are due or create the anti-values ​​that will guide us the rest of our lives.

Many reasons are making good consciences and actions difficult today, but the main one is the lack of coherence. Speaking of all the strata, without exception, the family is the point of convergence of its members, but at the moment various phenomenon of collusion and impunity are happening in it. The issue is not one of conjuncture, it is structural and is present around us.

Almost without intending it, the family is usually the shelter of the losers, the bad students, the inept employees, the thugs, the liars, the corrupt ones, etc. When the family group tolerates these behaviors without reproach or minimal criticism, such a situation serves to reason about the phenomenon of excessive tolerance in family settings.

Thus the antivalores are born, the family of a smuggler progresses around the members who dedicate themselves to this trade and almost nobody can reproach them for not justifying themselves by saying that "this is what the superiors do". In the same way, the family of the peculador feels obliged to support silence to one of its delinquent members, so that the fiction of the family unit is maintained or for the "benefits" of the transgressor it is poured into the economic patrimony of his relatives.

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It is dramatic to know that now nobody receives, as before, a family censorship for labor incompetence, and this is accepted silently as if it were an unimportant matter in daily life. This internal attitude of reflection after negativity in motivation and in the workplace.

It is the family where we learn the value of work, as today almost all couples work, children listen all the time to complaints, claims, injustices that are committed against parents; Anxiety and stress, almost never pleasing, satisfying or authorizing this is what you transmit parents to children about the value of work.

The own incoherence then produces the indifference for the ethical in others. I mean, I do not give battles for my personal coherence and, therefore, I do not ask anyone. this leads to maintaining a permissive climate in the face of large and small corruption. phrases like "get the silver, millet, get it honestly, and if you can not get it honestly, get the millet silver" have been understood by the collective imagination as a form of permissiveness.

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In short, the family environment is the one that can best achieve the reconstruction of the moral fabric of a country. The antivalores are established in the family and are deployed in one way or another to work, which is distorted as a source of self-realization.