Don’t Compromise Yourself. You Are All You’ve Got, Little Blue Daddy's Girls! Inspired By The One And Only Janis Joplin

in fathers •  7 years ago  (edited)

"You are a beautiful, strong, young woman and a great example, truly an inspiration for many women, way beyond the clouds" - My fathers words 

Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. There is no yesterday, no tomorrow, it’s all the same day. – Janis Joplin

I wrote those words to @tolarnee, a poet, the well deserved winner I chose for the third weeks contest, initiated by @steem-lagos, Now the ENTRY OPENED FOR THE 4TH WEEK 

I wanted to post the whole poem but chose only a couple of lines. 

I was moved when I read it. Click the link and read on! 

That Feminist!!! I am that feminist that doesn't seek the degradation of men to uplift women.I am that feminist that doesn't see all men as dogs just to make women feel better. I am that feminist that doesn't want women as queens and men as slaves. I am the feminist that sees all human beings as equal regardless of gender.......

This song and words, my poem below, came in my mind...... 

Tomorrow is my birthday and its been one year that I left and chose a new life, ended a 16 years long relationship, a beautiful and exciting friendship for over 12 years but toxic for the past four years. I had no strength to get up and go earlier. 

My father died on my birth date........

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So, September 20th will be a triple celebration day of " LIFE" and also Death. 

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Daddy's girl

All girls fall in love with their fathers first. 

I hope for you that he is a good man! 

Should men be "stronger" than us? 

Did you get lost in your first love?

Faces of their fathers and brothers are mirrored in all steps they make. 

You might be one of the lucky ones who had a great father like me. 

I believe in good men because of him.

Let today be a lovely day filled with love and forgivness 

Oh Wonder!

Marvelous phenomena! 

Small miracles!

Inexplicable joys! 

Beguiling ephemera! 

Changes that inspire a quiet awe! 

Intense and eccentric enchantments!

Unplanned jubilations and sudden deliverance from boring evils.........

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I am truly so sorry if your father was a " BASTARD" and NOT there for YOU!

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This got to me because I was a daddy's girl not until I lost him or maybe I still am. It still hurt me till today. But I find strenght knowing that he loved me so much. I guess you will always be your daddy's girl. He could have chosen to go any other day but he left on your birthday so that you will never forget him. You are special to him always and he always want to be remembered by you because you will always be his little girl. Happy birthday soon.

That one touching post and comment.

Happy Birthday @mammasitta!

Thats so sweet of you! Thank you for those wishes I appreciate very much! @teamsteem

You make me cry..........

Ohhh good singing....

Janis is a legend !!!

It is one step to know when something is not good, it is yet another step to leave toxic environments. That requires great courage! I'm happy you are that string woman who managed to do so. With your birthday coming up tomorrow, I truly hope many things will turn into the right directions for you!

step and step and another step and so on :)

Little steps are good :)


"Father Of Day, Father Of Night" - Manfred Mann's Earth Band (1973)

OMG OMG OMG Thats one of my teenage favourite songs ever and I forgot all about it ! Thank you so so so much @gtg This touched me deeply

Happy birthday. "You live in love and pain" one of the lines of truth in music. I have always enjoyed this song by Alice Cooper: Only Women Bleed.

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A celebration of Life, and Death. The cycle returns without one there is no other. We are born in pain, we live in pain, we die in pain. But that is not all we are or do. We give birth joyfully, we live in joy and happiness, we pass to our next adventure. Yes life can be tough, it makes us strong enough to love.

Happy Birthday


May your day be filled with Love, Happiness, and loving memories.

Yes life can be tough, it makes us strong enough to love.

And LIVE on ....

I always did it to the Max !!!
No regrets!
Just keep in going......

Video was not available but I remember that song so well!

🌺🌺🌺 thanks for your wishes @bashadow

i was a Daddy and Mommy's lad, unfortunately i lost them both...The deep Scars i carry around me, i hope i heal!

Happy birthday to you Dear @mammasitta

I am so so so sorry but time will make it much easier and you are a sweet and kind young man and strong to keep your head wide up !!! Love your way!

You are part of my inspiration ma'am...😊

wow! thats sweet!

I'm very emotional and touching, to read your post @mammasitta !
I'm also a daddy's girl and lost him a few years ago, could not even said goodbye to him. For the things he had done. But I'm a very positive person that one day I'm gonna meet him. He's always forever in my heart and dreams. The same I felt for you, that your daddy will always be by your side not in the physical world but spiritual world.

Beautiful and positive words of wisdom!
We are lucky that we have caring fathers and wonderful memories while many others might not have experienced the same. Yes! I am thankful for those days with him on and behind my side. Those dreams are intense at the moment but I will celebrate my birthday tomorrow. A celebration of an amazing life so far 💜

Thanks @mammasitta you are also a very wise and positive person.
I hope you will have a very nice day tomorrow on your birthday and enjoy your loved one. <3

You are so sweet ! Danke schoen!

Very beautiful message indeed from a father to his daughter. The other night I wanted to hear from my deceased father, in a dream and shortly before I woke up in the morning he appeared in front of me smiling,
I took him in my arms and I tightened him very hard, I knew that I was dreaming, so I thought if I dream and I take him in my arms I will not feel it. I took it in me
arm and tightened it very hard and it's like it was still there I felt like before. I needed it so much and he gave it to me. Even though I know it's better where
it is now I am missing enormously every day.

I can feel you! Your words so moving and touching in such emotional times for me. Mine is also in my dreams when I miss him the most. He is kind and gentle and in peace. So, we can be both in peace as well and keep on moving

We had two boys, no girls. It was only after I became a grandfather to a little girl that I discovered how special father daughter, grandpa granddaughter relationships are.

Wow! You are a lucky Grandpa!! I can't wait until I meet my grand children one day ....I hope!

Lucky you sire, i wish my Mom or Dad stayed to see their Grand daughter or Grandson.....My greetings to your lil angel sire...

You leave me speechless, maybe that is also the best,... no words can describe your feelings, now words can turn back time, no time can take away your pain.
Ich mochte nur das BESTE fur dich ! Ein wunderschone Geburtstag Morgen und Geniesse von dein TAG.

So beautiful !!!! Danke Vielmals for your wishes

Thansk for sharing love and acceptance! Its what we all need

Thank you!!!

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read your post, I'm touched, and from this wisdom I will try and keep learning to be the best father for my daughter..... and happy birthday @mammasitta

I am sure you do your very best and your daughter will be proud of you !!!

Thanks @mammasitta

Lucky people those with dads.. unfortunately there are many kids whose dads are just shitheads

I know that too well :(

Amazing how you mentioned Janis Joplin a true icon of the american music industrie and one of my favorites.

loved her too since "Mercedes benz" and bob dylan, great musicians

Intense!!!

Happy Birthday @mommasitta, enjoy your life and the good memories of your Daddy. A father protects his little girl and shows her what a good man should be like so his daughter knows what to look for in a mate!

upvoted coz i love your kind comment 😍

@reddust always rocks my timeline :) Love your way lady!

good to see you here 😍

Hi my mommy figure, i'm delighted to read your sweet comments....How's my E doing?

Forgive the past. It is over. Learn from it and let go. People are constantly changing and growing. Do not cling to a limited, disconnected, negative image of a person in the past. See that person now. Your relationship is always alive and changing.

So so so so so true!!!!

Very moving mammasitta! Congrats to the winner! Congrats to you for doing the write step at the write time, and of course a very happy birthday tomorrow 😀😎😘

Danke Danke Danke !!!
Emotional times for me!

@mammasitta Super stupendous article. It contains wonderful poem, brilliant lines, effective words. I love this post. I ever try to read the articles of some users Who are very supportive as well as great steemian. There are some steemians in my mind and you are also in them. Thanks for sharing.

The best birthday present to read your comment. Thank you so much!!! It feels good ......

Welcome @mammasitta dear and I wish This day for you will full of memorial. And You live till eternity.

@mammasitta - Oh my goodness, you made me cry ma'm. You showed me the value of my parents Ma'm.
Happy Birthday soon ma'm. We always with you. Won't let you feel you are alone ma'm.

+W+

Lets cry together then :) Keep them to your heart, as close as you can .....

Nice, Heart touching poetry @mammasitta !! You have to move on.. and Happy b'day in advance!!

I am moooovingggggg :)

Sounds Good @mammasitta, and Happy birthday!!

amigo #resteemia at your service

heart touched article & wish happy b'dy soon @mammasitta

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Danke vielmals !!! I am amazed how persistent you are with your kindness in your comments.

Beautiful and touching, all poems. It's alla bout respect for each other, caring and love. Men or women. There is not need for superiors or other ideas like that. We are all humans, not "just" genders.

Yes !!!! We are!

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We all have fixed schedule to meet Lord. But I don’t Know that your father was so, punctual for it. You all in our prayers and blessings, Stay Strong. Resteemed to my followers too.

Blessings your way as well and thank you for those kind, meaningful words 🙌

Those word's are damm true no doubt about that :) @mammasitta

Thank you sweet @blazing

that is very well said mammasita!

@mammasitta,
Your birth day is tomorrow? So, I wish you HAPPY BIRTH DAY my dear friend.
Then you said "So, September 20th will be a triple celebration day of " LIFE" and also Death. "
Yeah I could understand, and I hope you will clear all those hurtful memories and enjoy your birth day!
Finally I wish your father to rest in peace! And yeah you missed him a lot, but I wish he always bless you and look after you when you need him!

Wish you a very happy birth day tomorrow! (tomorrow I will wish the same)

I am learning every day and continue walking ....some days I cry but most of the time I am looking to laugh out loud. Thank you for your wonderful wishes! He is with me !!!

Excellent article, especially heartfelt lines of poetry. Thank you @mammasitta

Thank you so much ! I'm crying ....a little bit .....

Oh, I want to support you, do not worry much ...

You are so sweet! Thanks I'm better already 🌺

That's why i love my father

I am pleased and happy to hear about your love for your father, just like me!

@mammasitta
It is a noble thing to treat everyone equally.
100% like and resteem.

OH yes! There is no other way!

i can understand how that feels fathers are the real hero in our lives !

Good fathers are indeed hero's

That must be very painful for you to celebrate your birthday as that day is your father's RIP anniversary. I am really sorry that you have to end your 16 years old relatioship, you as you have made a strong move here to cut off with the toxic person, I wish you a very happy and good life ahead. You will find someone better than him very soon.

Definitely worth an upvote and a resteem :)

Awwww ! so sweet! Thanks much

It's amazing and beautiful poetry. Love to read it.

came right out of my heart

Birthday is always best day. Welcome to happy returns of the day. "Happy birthday"to u. Wish ur best of luck.many many returns of the day......

nice story thanks for shereing

Thank you

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. May Lord give your family peace and comfort to bear all these pain.

Thank you so so much. Time did heal some "hurt" and I have learnt to accept the circle of life.

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Exultant post. @mammasitta thanks for sharing.

I need to look up this strong word to know the meaning of it!

movie best, Excellent article, thanks for sharing! mammasitta

So glad you like it ! Thank You!

i agree with you @mammasitta

What part😳 @american-pie

its really great post...........i am totally speech less,

Awwwww......it touches me to read your comment

পোষ্ট টা পড়ে কাইন্দাহালছি,,,।।

I wish I would understand those words @black35

To understand the words, please contact me on facebook..my ID name is Hasibul Hasan Mintu..!!Tnx..mammasitta

NIce poem. good tool for inequality

Danke schön!

its a fantastic post, thanks for sharing once again.

thank you so so much

I wish you a Happy birthday @mammasitta. Mine was 7th September.
Sorry about the demise of your dad. I hope you have found great strength to carryon. I am sure he will be glad his girl is doing fine now.

That's so wonderful to read your wishes at the end of a wonderful day with my closest ones .
I bet he knows it all!
Happy late birthday to you as well Birgo brother @turpsy 🌺🌺🌺

Didnt know you are going to reply, that was great. I have seen some of your tweets on twitter, however i didnt pay attention to them. Because in spanish mamacita which is not thesame letters as your mammasitta, means "hot lady"(not all like to be called that). So the word seems offensive. Then i saw on @gloglo whatsapp profile, a picture of you and "Happy birthday mammasitta", I had to send her message "Who is mammasitta?". I am still awaiting her response though. There is nothing more beautiful than having wonderful times with loved ones. I am glad you enjoyed it. Cheers dear sister @mammasitta.

Good morning! :)
Very beautiful, touching article @mammasitta!!
I wish you a happy birthday and all the best! :)

Papa nya mamma memberikan nasehat yang bagus. (Your father give a great advice for you mamma). Nice :)

Apakapar Pak ! Selalu I enjoy your lessons in bahasa 😘 @happyphoenix

Nice song

Janis is a legend! That song makes me cry but smile

Incredibly, you are very handsome

My father? Yes! He was very handsome

I love his style.