Having A Dinner With My Old Friend

in food •  7 years ago  (edited)

I met my friend who was a priest in Catholic Church.
It was a high school when we met first.
At that time I never ever had thought him to be a priest.

One day I heard he entered into the seminary. I couldn’t believe that.
During the military service, he made up his mind to be a priest.
Strange thing was that he never’ve been the Church before the military service.
As I several times have told, the military service is compulsory obligation for all young men.

He was an urchin in high school. We had played together. Some times we had escaped from school. In the deep corner, some of urchins had drunk and smoked.

The principle was very strict in Korean high school. But we had enjoyed that freedom once upon a time.
More than 40 years he have met as a friend.

After my retirement, we met that day as usual.
We had talked our further life and went to the restaurant to eat something.

He guided me to the restaurant. The restaurant was located in the corner of the back alley in Myeong Dong. Myeong Dong is the very center of Seoul City.

Once Myeong Dong had been a center of poor writer and painter for decades ago.
Now Myeong Dong was changing rapidly for business and consuming.

But until now, there exist some restaurants where poor artists had eased their empty stomach.

The restaurant where my priest friend guided me was that place for the poor artists.

We ordered Seol Leong Tang.
Seol Leong Tang was actually very high standard food. This menu was closely related to King in Choson Dynasty.

As I had posted, Choson Dynasty was on the basis of agriculture. So King had to cultivate the rice by himself to show to people how he thought the agriculture important, even though it was a ceremony.

After the ceremony of cultivation, King and his officials had had a food. It was the Seol Leong Tang.

It looks simple. But it is not easy. There need an enough experience to make Seol Leong Tang.
The essence is making a soup. They need to boil the beef proper time. The proper time and fire is the secret.

Once they found the secret, the restaurant could continue for long time.
The restaurant where we dropped by have 50 years history in one place.

Look below is Seol Leong Tang.

Kimchis very important in Seol Leong Tang.

At first, you need to put the rice into the Seol Leong Tang.

Secondly, You need put Kimchi soup into it.

You need to have delicate feeling of taste for Seol Leong Tang.

This was a super. I ate it up to the bottom.

It is always the best dinner when we have it with a good friend.

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I like this :)

Nice to meet with an old and loved friend of yours
At a special dinner and in a restaurant visited by artists
This is considered at the summit of loyalty and faithfulness.

YUM!

So amazing! Love how tasty all the photos look! I would comment more but I'm heading into a Korean restaurant! hahahahaha!

그리운 사람과 설렁탕 이라
가마솥에 서 오랫동안 끓인 진국 설렁탕 처럼
그리운 사람들도 수십년을 그렇게 끓고 있었네요

너 정말 먹을 수있어!lol!

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Nice photos, but now I want to try Seol Leong Tang...
Such a nice story the one of your friend!!

Thank you

Awesome post, love travelsharing!

;))

The food and restaurant looks awesome... I am sure you had great time dinning with your friend @slowwalker ...

Yes, I did

As said by someone “People change,things change,time changes, priorities change,but expectations always remain the same” .

Nothing is permanent in life-not even the company of your loved ones. We need to understand the fact that every person we meet is there to accompany us in a particular phase of life. It is very rear that friends we make in childhood have same goals, same thoughts like us. So it is obvious that they will be on different path from us. *So as the time changes paths change because goals change. Now since they are on a different path with different goals so it is obvious that they will meet new people- “People with common path and common goal”. So now priorities change. But one thing that didn’t changed over the time was our expectation. Expectations always remain the same. Despite of this great change- “Change in time” we still expect that person to behave same as he used to behave years ago. Instead of changing our expectations we change our perception that person has changed. But they have not.
So, they have not forgotten you but their current priorities regarding their life goal might have changed. They are now more in touch with new people on same journey than you. Try to remain in touch of your friends but remember one thing “Good friends always occupy a special place in heart even if you are out of touch for years.”

Happy Reading :)

Thank you for your thoughtful comment.
Actually when it comes to friend, the older the better

I appreciate your perspective. I’ve recently come to a similar resolution, in terms of how to maintain old relationships. I’ve always tried to only hold onto the good times. I eventually realized how unsustainable of an ideal that really was. Knowing that, gave me peace, and allowed me to change my thought process. Now I welcome change, along with fresh relationships. Thanks for the added clarity :)

Life circumstances sometimes calls you into something that you didn't originally intend for yourself like your friend being a priest.

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That must've been very tasty. I should definitely try it!

Wow I want to go here in vocations ... is it too costly...????

maybe
Five dollars

This is always pleasurable to meet old friends

;D

You made me hungry☺

Good one story

Nice photos, i am steel hungry hahaha, enjoy your food Greetings from Venezuela!
Buena foto, ahora tengo hambre jajaja, disfruta tu comida saludos desde venezuela!

Decent photographs, however now I need to attempt Seol Leong Tang...
Such a decent story the one of your companion

;))

Awesome post With nice pic. crushed on your status

What a cool experience!!!!

Wow there's such amazing food in Korea from what steemit has to show! I can't wait to visit

I have an appetite ...!

Good

Aunque la vida cambie, la amistad tiene durar para toda la vida, saludos

good

what a nice story!! Food looks delicious

korea is a very stunning city, your post makes me like again in korea, really a very interesting post,
best regards @slowwalker

Thank you so much

Felt nostalgic when you mentioned about your escape from school with your friend... It's always nice to meet those intimates who were our schoolmates once....Thank you @slowwalker your writings always makes my day;)

Thank you so much

that´s looking pretty tasty... is it any spicy too?

Not spicy, mild and delicate taste

Meeting with friends in a nice dinner atmosphere .. friends always remind us of the past...

You are right

The food looks delicious, but the story is even more captivating. Life is full of surprises, you will never know where the path will lead you :)

agreed

the dinner was delicious and really enjoyable @slowwalker

Wow amazing photography all the snaps are awesome.... perfect click....thank you for sharing with us.... keep sharing more

Thank you so much

You are welcome ☺️@slowwalker

its great meeting with old friends!....i once watched a documentary on korean food. there is usually a great deal of history connected to the foods. very interesting post. i will research more on this and post to share more. nice one!

;))

the atmosphere is so warm, what else reminisce with friends lam who has long been split up and are not met, I reminded my friend while reading your post.
Thank you for sharing a very nice posting

meet your friend and have a dinner. That' s all we can do.

dinner with old friend very very, them there is history when we are childern.. @slowwalker

It is amazing how God cam take your urchin friend and turn him into a priest.

hahaha

the food menu of the kings ,, I am very impressed with your story with your old friend, it is amazing, your experience is very much .. I really admire you, thank you very much for what you share ..@slowwalker

Thank you silvia

A very interesting meeting of friends must be very much story material because it has not been long met ..

Good dinner with a good friend. Everything is great with a friend at your side. :)

Blessings to you @slowwalker. Have a great day ahead!

To meet with a old friend is always a pleasure, and you had dinner with him, thats all awesome to see... Enjoy!

It is always exciting to have food with old friend.

Exactly

I like it a ky shy hy tiko luli da pata ne

This is an interesting read, quite interesting and good content. Thanks.

I have never been to Korea but through your posts I would love to 😀!!

What a very good life changing to your priest friend. You can never tell what lies ahead...good faith laids him there. Thanks for sharing @slowwalker

amazing! the food looks really good.

Thank you for dropping by my post. It is always good to enjoy a nice dinner with a close friend :)

I've never been a huge fan of Kimchi, but Bibimbap I've had, and it's pretty yum!

Then, you will like Seol leong tang too

Good

had a great time. thank you for sharing with us photos ))

Good

You didn't even leave some soup,was it that delicious?

It was great to meet an old friend imagining that I would be with someone very beautiful. Have a good day with him. Enjoy the togetherness

Myeong Dong! I loved that place when I was in Seoul. I went twice and thankfully on the second time, there was a sale.

super rad name lol @slowwalker

superb @ slowwalker . vote for vote

Very good post, great experience, I am amazed with your writing
greetings @slowwalker

I hope you don't have the same problem in the States with catholic priest. Some sexually molest children. I personally think, if they don't allow the priest to marry, they just require castration, so there is no temptation. If they have it, they be tempted to masturbate and that can be another temptation on itself to lead to something else.

Makanan yang sangat lezat.

Good

Thank you for the great post that provides so much valuable information. Your post has been Upvoted and Resteemed so that more people can read your blog.

Yazdığınız içeriği anlamadım ama yemekler güzele benziyor :)

WOW @slowwalker
I bet that the Seol Leong Tang really is a great-tasting food that is really so special to prepare and have as it is a dish with a secret.
I am glad that you have met and conversed with your former classmate and now a priest friend. It is such a joy having to meet a friend from long ago.

Yes, I love to hang out with my friends

The Kimchi looks delightful; and, of course, it is the perfect enhancement for soups. Is that chunks of daikon in the Kimchi?

Great post...great story!

Peace.

Very good 😊😊😊

What an interesting thing it's the first time I hear about an restaurant fort the poor artists...
But kinda hurts...
In my country, for many people, being an artist it's like being a beggar who should sell it's work for nothing just because he has no choice... I've felt this attitude when I went to fairs when rich people who appreciated my work didn't pay for it because it's 'expensive', considering that I'll give them for a penny to pay my rent... it's hard, but passion, motivation and love for beauty makes us thrive...
Maybe there you were surrounded by beautiful, creative, appreciative people!
I send you a good thought and my sincere appreciation for your beautiful meeting! May all of us meet old friends healthy and happy!
Thank you, sir!

Thank you so much for your comment.
Yes, many artists were poor when they were alive.
But they put their lives into the world of creation with taking the risk of their daily life.
It meant that the masterpieces were the result of sacrifice of themselves

Another thing I'll think about today...
Thank you for giving me a new perspective to look at things!
🌿

Seeing these pictures makes me want to return to Korea again for a vacation :-)

Thats lovely, Ive always wanted to make it myself, there is a restuarant in Birmingham that gives you a hotplate and you put it together according to your taste. I will go there soon.. :-)

başarılı, bir sunum thank you

It looks very taste!

How precious it is to keep a good friend from High School until the age of retirement. I think it all comes from your virtue and manner because sometimes friendship seems to be broken as time goes by. I had learned this from a Korean drama called 미생(mi-saeng) in which is a story of lives and experiences in a trade company in the drama. The episode I watched last night shocked me. Here is the story.

the manager had to go to meet a very important buyer but he realized that he is an old friend of him from high school. He was kind of happy because he thought that he could manage the meeting very well, and lead the business succeeded. However, things went totally different. his friend who was on a very high position of the Buyer company acted very weirdly. The manager put all of his effort to lead the business success but he failed at the end, and asked his friend why didnt he give a negative feedback at first but continued to show weird behavior until the last minute. His friend eventually said that it is just because he did not like to see that he was on the higher position (갑) than him 20 years ago in the high school. This crazy relationship really shocked me and made me worry if I have to go through the same thing when I go back to Korea.

Anyway, thats really good to hear that you keep a good relationship with your friend more than several decades, and thanks for letting me know the historical fact of Myeongdong and historical explanation of 설렁탕. I wouldn't know it if I didnt read the content.

Have a good day!

Hahaha, Thank you for reading

Hola...se ve muy sabroso..buen provecho,te sigo y te di el voto espero el tuyo@pedrolavado

깨끗하게 드셨네요 ㅎㅎㅎ
설렁탕이 조선 왕조와 관련이 있을 줄은... 그리고 쇼핑의 거리인 명동이 화가와 작가들의 문화적 중심지였을 거라고는 상상도 못 해본 일입니다. 네 짐작이 가지 않네요. 설렁탕 집에서 내오는 깍두기!!! 요즘 제가 가장 그리운 음식은 그 깍두기와 순대국입니다.

좋은 하루 되세요. 언젠가 돌아오셔서 좋은 글 계속 봤으면 좋겠습니다.

네 감사합니다.

Hermosa historia!!

"Siempre es la mejor cena cuando la tenemos con un buen amigo" muy buen dicho... Las fotos quedaron espectaculares.

It's great to meet old friends. Can remind the old story with him. Especially something memorable in school. It is a journey of life that we can not expect. Someone will change over time. Gratitude if he can change for the better. It becomes a very exciting dinner while reminding each other of the past that has become a beautiful memory. I also really like to taste the beef soup. Thanks for sharing @slowwalker.

Thank you for reading

I will always try to read it even though I have to use google translation. I would like to see more about the history and nature photography from Korea. With good food like this. Your posts are always the greatest. Good luck always for you @slowwalker.

feeling hungry.

A beautiful story. Thanks.

That's a fascinating story. Not even once in church before military service, priest afterwards. I must admit that 5 years of my army service (I was pro though...) changed my life dramatically too, in a different way. I have to admit, until reading this post I believed that you're a very young guy @slowwalker. It's great to be surprised like this. Much respect sir and thank you for great read!

Hahaha, I am an old man already

OMG.. today i ate that.. that’s soooo delicious and yummy.. i really recommend that. You are never and ever going to regret to eat that👍🏻

hahaha

Lovely article! It's 10:30 pm now and those photos are making me hungry! They look delicous!

Nice Photos.

have good time dear friend

Thank you

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Nice pics!! Hope you enjoyed your Seol Leong Tang ;)

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wow, this dinner looks so delicious
am in love with korean movies and.i wish to come there some day

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THAT WAS HAVING DINNER AND GOOD TIME WITH FRIENDS

Do they call it Korean food in Korea or just food?

Korean food is more understandable ?

i like that you always learn a little bit about korean culture in your posts. i dont't know much about it but i prefer posts from which you can also learn sth about history, culture etc.

humans can change at any time, although we do not expect.

lol

Very good photos. The preparation seems easy but it must be a very tasty dish. I want to try it ...

Good

The soup looks very delicious!

history very beautiful, we never know which direction our lives will take

The food looks so delicious 😋 I'm going to have to see if they have it at the Korean restaurant in the city but I bet it won't be the same. How wonderful for you and your friend to meet and have a great chat after so long! I'm happy you got to do that! 😊

Thank you so much

Jesus! That food looks soooo good :o !!!