Forgiveness is Not a Dirty Word

in forgiveness •  2 years ago 

Forgiveness is a choice that you make with rational thought. It is a decision that helps you let go of hurt and pain. The choice of forgiveness does not mean you have forgotten the offense or trust is restored. It also doesn't heal the hurt instantly. But God is able to heal the broken heart.

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The word forgiveness is derived from Sanskrit and is commonly associated with other words like mercy, compassion, and kripa. In Hinduism, forgiveness is considered one of the six cardinal virtues and is taught in the Vedas. The word is also used to refer to the act of allowing another person to forgive you, which is a result of accepting the other person's forgiveness.

The act of forgiveness can take on different forms: it can be a mental act of forgiving oneself or a loved one. It can also involve talking to someone else about it. For example, you might forgive yourself after discovering that your spouse had an affair. When you think about forgiveness, you may feel triggered by a memory. If you are feeling hurt, it may be a good idea to write a letter of apology to your spouse, but do not forget the truth.

Forgiveness can also help you move on from the past and improve relationships and self-esteem. While it may be helpful for some people, others may find it difficult to forgive. They may spend years ruminating over the negative feelings that are triggered by the past. When you forgive, you can focus on the positive in your life. It will help you move on from negative emotions and focus on the future.

Forgiveness is not about forgetting what happened, but about changing the future. It is about letting go of the past and choosing to look forward to a brighter future. Forgiving isn't about the wrongdoer; it is about choosing to move on.


There are some people who feel that forgiveness is a dirty word. However, it doesn't have to be. It is an active choice you make, a decision you must make step-by-step. Forgiving someone does not mean you're not loving them.

Forgiveness is a decision that can lead to peace, joy, gratitude, and emotional well-being. In addition, it allows you to let go of the anger and resentment that may have been caused by the other party. It can also help you feel empathy for the person who caused the hurt.

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Most people probably do not see forgiveness as the possibility of freeing themselves from an emotional burden, which often ends up weighing more than anything else.
Perhaps if they were aware that this is so, it is a heavy burden, they could consider forgiveness as a source of improvement in their lives, would they consider forgiveness as a source of improvement in their lives?