Under Pressure! How Come? Really?

Why this title?

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That's how it all started!

I found a little surprising message on my whatsapp and I am thriving restlessly on those thoughts why somebody you enjoy being close to feels pressure anyways, especially when you think that everything goes so well and easy, when passions and good chemistry are floating freely, without any complications. Oh well ....some .....

Suddenly all is on hold, emotional breaks in effect and trust dissapears because you fear rejection or invading someones space. You start holding back.

Oh ...Of course NOTHING makes sense ...What happened?

“I don't like when people put me under pressure.”

How many times did you hear those words from your children maybe, your lover, partner our family members?

I had to explore this case a little further to understand the other side because I have been under pressure many times as well and it was most of the time when I fear to loose my freedom.

Oh Yes! I love my freedom more than anything but I will not hide my feelings. I am honest and stand to my own truth.

Like it or Not!

How To Gain Your RIGHT For FREEDOM, The Tenability Of What You CAN Do Anywhere, ANYTIME!

If somebody you care for cannot take your affection because it might feel “too much”, you should have never even started any kind of relationship. Just don't get IT started. It's unfair to play games.

We would be much better off hiding in our own cocoons then and don't let anybody come close.

I will not fall into the same trap all over again to stay attached to unavailable human beings. It drains my energy.

Fear will hold you back from having a good time and experience precious moments as long as they last.

I used to vanish!

I was a master in protecting myself from deeper relationships on all levels. Some of my dearest ones hurt me so badly and I couldn't take any more heartache or insults for my wounded soul. I rather focus on people who make me feel good.

I protected myself from disappointments but I changed and opened up my heart again on April6th, 2018. I dared to take on a challenge.

I will remember this day as a symbolic change of my path towards more happiness again.

It feels so good!

I expressed it HERE in this article

How come the people you care the most end up telling you that you are the reason they feel “pressure”.

Pressure from what?

Too many unknown or unwanted emotions?

Are they worried to loose themselves?

Do they feel suffocated because you show that you care a little too much?

I don't get it!

My reply was very clear and honest:

“As much as you don't like people who put you under pressure, I am not fond of anybody ignoring me, even though you don't owe me anything. I am sure your issues have nothing to do with me, therefore I don't take anything personally. Sort out all problems as I have as well. That's life!”

Sorry my Darlings but

LOVE Will Never Die!

Mine .....Never!

My inspiration for this post was about an interesting topic and conversation about #selflove

Over those past two years I met so many creative, interesting, talented, lovely human beings on steemit, my true online home even though I am very excited about @onosocial as you might have realized. Recently I am not much around because I felt a huge burn out writing more articles and curating.

But then, yesterday one young man touched me deeply at the right time and spot. He challenged me on some thoughts I have circling around my mind for quite some time.

Yeah! It’s still the never ending question how Love could truly conquer all of our hearts and nothing less than love can bring us closer. How can we change the world for the better if hate and fear still takes the majority of our daily lives?

It makes me sad when I see people in unnecessary struggles about money, property to gain for power and to please their egos.

The "destroyers" of beautiful communities and good vibes with their small minded centralized attitude and actions.

I represent decentralized thinking!

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I will keep on shining anyways!

I welcome and introduce you to a new Steemian I found from Nigeria and I will support with all my VP power! :)

HELLO!!!

@]olawalium

Only love can make you feel this way, invincible, irresistible and unstoppable. Love is a feeling you feel, when you feel you are feeling a feeling, like you have never felt before. I am happy you feel this way, and yes, you are loved. Your influence spreads like fragrance.

@mammasitta

Wow!

@]olawalium

Yaaaay! Wide smile. Really delighted you love it.

@mammasitta

It’s not about a conventional love for a man!
It’s the true love for myself
It took me a zillion of years to understand

@olawalium

Self-love is key. Once we love ourselves enough, we won't accept anything less. We won't even give discount. Hahaha. I am glad you feel this way.

@mammasitta

No discount! No compromise! My cocoon with crystal walls has no place for anything or anybody who doesn’t wish to shine!
I check your poem and also blog out right now.
I am happy that you found me and I know you now.

@olawalium

Hahahahaha I love this. Your determination is absolutely amazing. I enjoy people with positive vibe and you are sure a blessing already.

@mammasitta

How could we teach others how to love one another, the ones who are damaged, just how I was, those scared ones who can’t let their true emotions flow freely! You hear words like “I don’t like to feel pressure” when somebody just worries about their freedom. Anyways....

@olawalium

Wow! How can we teach others to love one another, when we don't even love our own self? With my life, i learned i could make a fine tune out of a broken string just by loving myself enough. I am so glad you have your own story too. I am glad to hear everything.
You have so much depth and I am really interested to read and know every of your single thought. Just few chats with you, i am excited already and i know i have so much to learn from your wealth of experience. I look forward to it and i will read every single line, you can be so sure of that.

Thank you to make MY DAY dear Olawalium!

Welcome to my Musical cocoon and playlist @massivevibration because I can express myself through songs better than words.

Yours @mammasitta