The Way To A Man's Heart

Hello friends, hope you are having a great day there. So am going to be talking about an interesting topic that have heard time and time again.

Where I come from there is this phrase that says "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach". Some persons are of the opinion that when a lady knows how to cook, she can win a man's heart or maybe steal the heart you know. I mean like how a lady cooks delicious meal that makes a man bite his tongue lol, especially when it comes to the local or traditional dishes, then the man would just fall in love. There are even some men who can actually tell their wife's meal apart from others just by tasting it.

While some other people are of the school of thought that the way to a man's heart is through sex, which is somehow not accepted by me. Reason being that, you do not just have sex with a man for the first time and you just win his heart just because of that, would you call that love? Or being able to capture his heart totally?. But then, some might as well have captured the heart of a guy through sex.

My Opinion

For me I think getting to a man's heart goes beyond the two options, be it cooking delicious meal or giving him great sex. Take for instance, can a man give his heart to someone who knows how to cook the most delicious meal, give great sex but without having a good heart or character? I do not know about you guys but if I was a guy definitely not, that man his most likely to not have a peace of mind...What is a lady without good character, think about it.

For me being able to cook or setting his table and giving him great sex are like spices in a relationship that makes it more interesting....hmm like the garlic that gives a meal a nice aroma.

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• For some her good heart and character found a way to capture his heart...

• For another it was the way she smiled that day, that just worked it's way to his heart.

• For someone else her supportive spirit made him fall for her.

• For another it maybe how she treated his mother that did the trick.

• For others it may be her caring nature that did it.

Funny enough some cannot even pin point what exactly captured their heart, although if they do, it would be far away from delicious meal or great sex....my thoughts though.

Feel free to drop your thoughts and make a comment, i would appreciate that.

Thanks for reading, have a lovely day.

Bliss