Uncomfortable 😣

So ... one of the guys ...I grew up around ... a friend of all the guys ... my brothers and cousins ... he really became a member of the family .... has been acting kinda different around me lately .... especially since he found out about my marriage failing .... which has been making me feel a lil uncomfortable..... even taking a pic with him is weird lately .... like his hand on my waist ... just makes me feel very uncomfortable .

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I’m on the right ... and again just weird !

My sister thinks I’m crazy and reading into things ... but it just feels off ... and he’s been acting out of character lately .... so I told him to cut it out and act normal .... and he laughed it off and even passed a comment about what an idiot my husband was ... ... the other day ... he stopped by my house bc he was in the neighborhood and to check up on me ...... he’s always been like a part of the family .... but i just kinda want him to be normal again ..... I don’t like this sudden shift in his attitude and behavior .... at first I thought nothing of it ... but as the weeks go by it’s bevome more and more odd .

That is a tough one.

Seems like you feel weird because he has feelings you don't have?

Good luck!

Yea .. he’s a great guy .... and handsome too ... but I’m not interested in him in that way ..... plus going thru a divorce ..... and fell in love with a friend recently ... who I’m not sure if he really loved me in return... I’ve have enough of failing relationships.

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Good call. Be a great you and that will lead to better things.

Yup. That's weird..I agree with you. Trust your gut.

If you try to bring it up in conversation, obviously try to not be accusatory. I'm not sure how it could be worded.

If it truly makes you feel uncomfortable try talking with her about it. But know what to over look and such. Anyway... good luck.