After 60, if you don't have any friends, you have these three problems

in friendship •  7 months ago 

After sixty, if you find that the number of friends around you is gradually decreasing, perhaps you have gone through the following stages:

  1. Insight into life and understanding of human relations.
    A retired elderly person shared his story: when he was young, he made many friends, but as he grew older, he began to feel that he seemed to be less valuable, so he took the initiative to distance himself from his old friends. It's not because he changed himself, but because he understood the true meaning of life more clearly. He found that instead of spending time and energy maintaining those false interpersonal relationships, it's better to invest that love and energy into more meaningful things.

At this stage, having a confidant or being with a loved one is already enough happiness. Choosing to withdraw from some social circles and stay away from insincere interpersonal relationships becomes a wise choice.

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  1. Change of attitude towards life.
    When young, we had to make various friends in order to make a living, expand our social networks, and get more opportunities.

However, as time goes by, we begin to understand that life is not just about making a living, but also about enjoying its beauty and tranquility.

Some people gradually prefer to stay at home, enjoy the time with their families, and pursue inner peace and satisfaction. They are no longer keen on social activities, but prefer to quietly enjoy life at home.

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  1. Reevaluation of friendship.
    Being over sixty and losing friends does not mean that one lacks the ability to make friends.

Perhaps it's because they understand that true friendship is not about quantity, but about quality. They choose to withdraw from some circles, distance themselves from superficial friends, and focus more on enjoying life.

Therefore, losing friends is not scary; sometimes it's a relief. After sixty, we should pay more attention to our inner needs, choose a lifestyle that suits us better, and enjoy the beauty of life.
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