A college teacher once said, "Friends are not made because they are useful. We can't make friends just to use them."
True friends are not utilitarian.
We gather because of fate, like-minded, heart to heart, cherish each other.
I make the ascent, you do not climb; You are full, I do not envy.
I have nothing, you do not leave; I don't laugh at your poverty.
Only in this way can we become intimate friends.
Time knows man, trouble knows heart.
Useless friends, can go together for a lifetime.
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Fake friendship: when you have an accident, he leaves
I read a story online about 19-year-old Jason Swisspoon, who created a website that amassed 9 million page views in a few months.
This led him to be featured in Fortune magazine in the United States, and quickly became known to the public.
Financial institutions and investors saw an opportunity in him and offered him loans.
It wasn't long before Jason Swisspoon's company went public, and the stock soared.
He was the object of all the media attention and people thought he would be the next Bill Gates.
Limelight is strong he, every day can attend a variety of parties and dinner, a lot of successful people and he befriend, instant scenery infinite.
As the stock market suddenly changed, Johnson's shares plummeted and the company had to declare bankruptcy at last.
In a matter of days, Jason Swisspoon went from rich to penniless.
He wants to rebuild his website and make a comeback, but as he raises funds, he finds himself shunned by his old buddies.
Jason Swisspoon exclaimed afterwards:
"The people you surround yourself with when you achieve something are not necessarily your true friends. Only when you are most helpless, help you, is really good friends to you."
Man, after all, is a creature that seeks advantage and avoids harm.
When you're riding high, you'll find yourself surrounded by friends, all willing to help.
When you hit a low point, you will find that people shun you and give you a cold shoulder.
As the saying goes, "If you are poor, nobody will ask you. If you are rich, you will have distant relatives in the mountains."
Those fake friendships are all about profit. They'll slip away when you're in trouble.
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True friend: he came when you had an accident
In a Chinese TV series, The Great River, Song Yunhui and Lei Dongbao have a praiseworthy friendship.
Song Yunhui is the brother-in-law of Lei Dongbao, after the death of the elder sister, although did not have this layer of kinship, the two people with congenuous disposition are friends as before.
To grow the Lei family business quickly, Redonbo borrowed millions of dollars and built several factories.
However, because of lack of management, the profit of the enterprise is not good, and the monthly profit is only enough to repay the interest of the bank.
Song Yunhui works in another city, and the two don't have much contact, but they care about each other.
Song Yunhui heard about the situation in Redongbao's factory and advised him to slow down the pace of development and improve product quality.
Unexpectedly, Lei Dongbao not only did not listen, but also laughed at Song Yunhui when the high official for a long time, tube too wide.
In the face of Lei Dongbao's attitude, Song Yunhui was very angry, but still privately inquire about the situation of Lei Dongbao, concerned about the situation of his factory.
Later, Redongbao was wrongfully embezzled collective assets, there is a very important investment contract can not find, he is indefensible.
The people around him were indifferent to his plight, some even kicking him when he was down.
The xiaohui that is informed a circumstance drives back old home for the first time however, try hard to prove the innocence of Lei Dongbao.
He did not eat or rest, running in many ways, go all out to find evidence.
Finally, the proof of Lei Dongbao innocence of the investment contract was finally found by Song Yunhui, he succeeded in the Lei Dongbao was nearly sentenced to death saved.
A good friendship is one that is busy but concerned about each other.
It is not noisy, but can withstand the scour of time, carry the baptism of time.
There is a saying well, who is good who is not good, see what happens; A friend in need is a friend indeed.
A good friend is one who treats you with his heart and will not leave you because you are in trouble. Instead, he will help you in times of trouble.
You know, the icing on the cake may not be true, timely assistance is true feelings.
Those who are not driven by interests and never abandon you, is the heart to cherish the friend.
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Benefit intersection, profit as scattered; Intersect with heart, friendship is endless
In this life, we will meet many people, we will call them friends.
Especially in the social network so developed today, random pull a group, build a circle, you can call friends and companions.
The number of friends in our address book is in the hundreds.
The more people you have in your address book, the better. You never know when you'll come in handy.
This unfiltered web of relationships is all about our pursuit of the "useful principle".
But the reality is that most people only meet once.
I have even forgotten why I met him at the beginning.
Those who become friends because of power will be abandoned when they lose it.
Because of human ties of friends, will be in the human disappeared when the separation.
And only a friend for a heart is a friend for a long time.
Make friends, don't care what he can do for you, don't care what you want to be with each other.
As long as you can talk with eloquence, wine, weal and woe together, is a rare friend.
In the valley do not disturb, is the adult stubborn.
In the valley dare to disturb, is the tenderness between friends.
Heart to heart, the rest of my life someone to listen to, years of waves someone to remember.
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True friends are useless
I read this sentence on the Internet: "We spend our whole life just looking for a common soul in the vast crowd to fill the loneliness of life."
Between good friends, most of the time, is a kind of heart communication, emotional resonance.
Make useless friends, not driven by interests, in order to rest assured to put into practice.
It is only in middle age that one realizes that the most useful friendships are those that seem useless.
For the rest of your life, I wish you no glory, no trade-offs, no discretion in words and actions.
There are 32 friends, accompany chat poetry, chat piano, chess, painting and calligraphy.
To spend a beautiful life with useless people.