HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS: Starting A Conversation

Do you start to stuttering and maybe blank out and forget your own name? Do you start to sweat uncontrollably? Do you start to get red in the face, when you talk to a girl? If you answered yes to any of these questions I just asked you then its time to step up your game so you can answer my questions with a "No." Just follow my guide and ill tell you how you can step up your game!

Meet Paul

Paul is a average male, keeps to himself and fits into society like and other male would. Paul has a well paying job, a car and a house. But Paul is also struggling with talking and interacting with girls. Through out this tutorial we will watch Paul go trough various situations with girls and see what we can do to correct them!

Part 1: Introduce yourself!

Paul often struggles at introducing himself to girls. When Paul approaches a girl he often gets nervous and blurts out a random word or sentence.

To start a conversation with a girl you should catch her attention, but don't make it in a way that it will put yourself in a awkward position. When you start to approach the girl make direct eye contact. As you're approaching make sure to have confident body language. Keep your head up high, focused on her and have good posture. Once you reach the girl all you have to do it say "hey. my name is Paul, what's your name?" Another great way to introduce yourself is by  bringing up a something you both have in common like a class or sport you both enjoy.  When she response tell her your name and ask her, her name. 

Lets see how Paul does with a different girl but these tips in use!

Great work Paul!

Part 2: Be yourself!

This might be one of the most important step of all. Be yourself. Loosen up shake your bones out! You need to let the girl know who you really are. You don't want them to like you for somebody that you aren't! if you're a jokster crack some funny jokes! Make sure to make her laugh! If jokes aren't your thing talk about somethings that are meaningful to yourself. You also have to make sure you are getting to know her as well so ask her lots of questions about herself. you don't want to end up talking all about yourself and end up not knowing a thing about her. While it is good to be yourself it is recommended to hold back on some of the eccentric stuff. Get to know her a little bit more first. nobody needs to know how many oranges you can fit in your mouth at once!

Lets see how Paul does with these new tips he learned!

Outstanding work Paul!

Part 3: Smile!

Smiling can go a long way so turn that frown upside down! When you smile it shows you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you. You don't have to smile the whole time, but smiling at key moments at the beginning of the conversation can make  the girl feel appreciated.

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Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post. I had a lot of fun creating this post! The artistic visuals are created by myself. I have learned a lot about formatting through this blog! I hope to create more blog posts like this one!