There's are pretty clear reasons why there's a difference between pronoun uses with the likes of Blaire White, Marcus Dib Jensen, and Buck Angel than with people like Alok, Ezra Miller, and Jessica Yaniv.
First of all, there's a reason why Blaire White can make videos with Jaclyn Glenn going around asking people which of them was born a man - I wouldn't be able to tell that Blaire White was born a man without her being open about it. I wouldn't know that any of those first three people were trans unless they said something or that they had a reason to take their pants off in front of me. It would take more effort for anyone to intentionally use pronouns they they don't prefer than to use the pronouns that they prefer.
What's more, these aren't people who demand that people change language to fit their desires. They're not demanding that we change culture for their edification.
The thing is, if we treat the other three people in the exact same way that we treat the first three, as many activists demand, we're doing a few bad things. One, we're probably lying. Two, we're clumping all of these people into one group. Finally, when this activism is taken to it's logical conclusion, as we've already seen, we get a world that no reasonable person wants to live in.
Jessica Yaniv is one of the more perfect examples. I'm gonna be blunt, I don't even think that Yaniv is a trans woman. He was a child predator before claiming to transition. After transitioning he took advantage of Canada's discrimination policies by scheduling Brazilian wax sessions just do whip out his penis in front of women and sue them when they refused to handle his junk. He won tens of thousands of dollars and drove several women out of business in the process. He also tried to organize a clothing optional pool party for young girls - parents not welcome.
Now, some of you are going to attack me for misgendering Yaniv. I would dare to say that anybody who does is so open minded that his or her brain fell out. They also refuse to even fathom that maybe a dude who is already not right in the head and a clearly evil person might figure that wearing a wig and a dress is a small price to pay to force women to touch his cock and extort cash out of anyone who refuses and get more open access to young girls. Is it transphobic of me to not capitulate to Yaniv's demands; or, are you setting the perception of the trans community back by demanding that Yaniv be included in that community despite his behavior?
Now, somehow Yaniv managed to avoid arrest until he violated a dumb Canadian ban on tasers. Apparently trying to frolic naked with a bunch of underaged girls is kosher in Canada. Still, there are examples of these policies trickling into the criminal.
A supposed trans woman in the UK will spend the rest of his life in prison for the rapes of several women and young girls; then, when they sent him to a women's prison, he raped two more women. The UK is finally reevaluating the decision to send him to a woman's prison.
At some point you have to evaluate your priorities and your worldview if you find yourself scolding people for referring to a person who stuck his penis into an underaged girl as "him."
It also can't be ignored that it was the activists who decided to push us hard into this direction that anybody can simply identify how he or she wants and we all have to comply. The activists pushed us to the point that one doesn't even need a diagnoses of gender dysphoria for a person to identify differently. The activists are the people who started demanding that the rules of etiquette be changed so a little, entitled fascist like Ezra Miller can throw a hissy fit because a cop called him "sir" while arresting him for assaulting a woman.
Now, am I saying that a trans person who does something bad should lose the privilege of being treated with some dignity? No, nobody's perfect. What I'm saying is that people, including me, have a right to call it like we see it. I see Blaire White and I see a woman. I look at Yaniv and I see a male child diddler in a dress who doesn't deserve to be associated with women.